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My boyfriend is sweet and caring, but he really ogles other women!

Q.   My boyfriend is genuinely sweet and caring, but when it comes to looking at other girls he makes me feel really uncomfortable. The last episode was yesterday when we were on the train and he saw this girl sitting with her boyfriend in a short skirt. ...

A.   17 August 2012: Looking up and down for the hour glass figure, for fertility???? Surely when they are with someone, the job vacancy has been filled. I read somewhere that a man has a blueprint of an ideal woman. He may fall in love with a woman who is, say, dar... (read in full...)

Why do men look at other women?

Q.   Why do married men--or any man for that matter--stare at other women when they want to be with you and they love you and all that stuff? Men are so confusing sometimes I'm surprised I have nerves left....

A.   17 August 2012: PS Of course there are types of flirting looks too going on with this. Trust your instinct. Do NOT listen to men or even women saying it's all right, it's your fault, your imagination, or some eyewash you aren't giving him enough attentio... (read in full...)

Why do men look at other women?

Q.   Why do married men--or any man for that matter--stare at other women when they want to be with you and they love you and all that stuff? Men are so confusing sometimes I'm surprised I have nerves left....

A.   17 August 2012: ....And then deny it and call you jealous/out of hand. I found it very uncomfortable and disrespectful any time it happened. As far as I was concerned it was a red flag. Regarding being jealous, not at all, the last thing I want is to be with him... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is sweet and caring, but he really ogles other women!

Q.   My boyfriend is genuinely sweet and caring, but when it comes to looking at other girls he makes me feel really uncomfortable. The last episode was yesterday when we were on the train and he saw this girl sitting with her boyfriend in a short skirt. ...

A.   14 March 2011: I had this problem. We even went to a counsellor to deal with "my jealousy" (which caused his rage and our breakups). This strange lady, humourously asked what could He do? Was he to wear dark glasses so I wouldn't see him doing this??? The whole ... (read in full...)

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