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We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

Q.   This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's a...

A.   30 September 2008: I do have condoms. My brother gave me two before he left for college. I keep them in my room which is the only place we ever have the opportunity to do anything. That or the basement but my dad is usually down there. I don't want to be that rad... (read in full...)

We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

Q.   This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's a...

A.   24 September 2008: You guys really arn't helping. What I need is help so that I can continue to be close to my girlfriend without being temped to touch her. I don't need people trying to convince me that I've made the wrong decision.... (read in full...)

We want to wait until we are married to do anything sexual. How do I fight off the temptation?

Q.   This is a continuation of my last question as it's on a completely different subject. If that makes sense. Basically my problem is this. Me and my girlfriend used to do sexual acts. Not actual sex and not even oral. I've fingered her and that's a...

A.   24 September 2008: That doesn't really help my resolve to abstain...... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   19 September 2008: This is real. She really is having these problems and I really do need advice. Good advice. Not criticism from people that don't understand the situation. The reason why I've been giving so many details is that I feel like they're necessary to show ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   18 September 2008: Have you not been reading any of this? She said that she'll give me her virginity on our honeymoon and she still really wants to marry me. She's terrified of the thought of me leaving. How would her religion stop her from dating me. Our relation... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   16 September 2008: Alright. Update time. Yesterday she got into a fight with her mom. Her mom was a real wild child so she's very controlling. I'm not sure what all was said but they started arguing about how if her mom keeps trying to control her all it's going to... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   15 September 2008: ChiRaven I would like to thank you for your words of encouragement. By the time I read this I had already made my decision. And you've convinced me that it was indeed the right one. Today she felt terrible and kept apologizing. She felt like she... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   14 September 2008: Here's my latest update: Yesterday was both amazing and terrible. The day started off really good. We went to a wedding, celebrated my granddad's birthday and then had some time alone afterwards. When we were alone everything was great, she seem... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   8 September 2008: Well I was right. We never did actually get any alone time today when we could've done something but she seems okay. Last night I got a huge break through though. I talked to her about everything and she said for the first time that she believed me. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   7 September 2008: Just a quick update on how things are going. On Tuesday night the past tried to press it's way into her mind but she was able to keep it out. On Wednesday I made her a cd with my voice recorded on it giving her all kinds of encouragement. Since I ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   2 September 2008:  First of all I'd like to thank all of you for your support and suggestions. DiovanLestat, you've been loads of help. Even if you want to kick me. You don't need to apologize for ur book. It was very helpful and reassuring. Today I have good news ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   1 September 2008: Time for that update I promised. Today was... A step forward but at the same time it was really shaky. We started off great. Kissing and slowly working our way up to touching her down there. I was really gentle and I kept her in the present and told ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was molested, when she was younger, she get nervous, when I touch her intimately, is there any way I can help her be less nervous, and enjoy our encounters?

Q.   I've been dating this girl for quite a while. We're really close and even talking about getting married once we graduate college. I've been touching and sucking her breast for a while now and she always really enjoys that but I've just started ...

A.   31 August 2008: DiovanLestat Thank you for your advice. I'm actually spending time with her tomorrow and chances are that we'll start getting into that. I'll try your advice. I normally try to talk to her while were doing things. But I'm her first to do any of this... (read in full...)

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