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Is it normal to have sex after one week?

Q.   I have been going out with a girl for a week and we all ready had sex. Is that normal? She talks openly about it on the phone and I feel comfortable talking about it. She trusts me with some of her secrets and I told her mine because I can trust ...

A.   29 September 2008: seems you both felt it was right and you enjoyed it,i cant see anything wrong with this, good luck to you both... (read in full...)

He's 40, we met online and he says he loves me after only two weeks! How can this be possible?

Q.   Hi all, need some advice on a LDR. I am 38 yo woman and 5 yrs out of a long marriage ( and so far dateless) and recently met a 40 yo man online. He lives in the same country (though diff nationality) but is overseas on work contract at present. ...

A.   29 September 2008: this guy is wacko dump him,its not possible to fall inlove in 2 weeks ... (read in full...)

How do I give my boyfriend a blow job?

Q.   Well i tryed giving my boyfriend a bj and hj but its like im hurting him but yet its not my first time doing this and i have no clue what to do! i want to give him the best cause thats what he does for me but it seems im just hurting him ...

A.   29 September 2008: educate yourself with books,internet etc then go for it,if he still complains he is at fault not you... (read in full...)

What would you do if you caught your partner cheating on you?

Q.   What would you do if you caught girlfriend/boyfriend cheating on you ...

A.   29 September 2008: i would drop him like a ton of bricks and move on,you can do this your very young and have a lifetime ahead of you,chin up... (read in full...)

How can I deal with rejection. It's really brought me down.

Q.   Hi, I wrote about a girl who i thought was interested in me last month and today I finally brought myself to ask her out. When I did, she told me she was already in a serious relationship and so I said it was ok and changed the subject. I've worked ...

A.   29 September 2008: how can somebody at 25yrs think he`s old and past it,stop willowing in self pity and get out there and enjoy life,you`ve got loads going for you including young single girls who also want a little fun and just waiting to meet a nice 25yr old single ... (read in full...)

When we have disagreements he insults me and kicks me out of his house. I'm the only one who apologises, every time. Help?

Q.   I was with a guy for 3 1/2 months. Things went very quickly and we fell in love. He is 38 and I am 41. He is divorced with a 9 year old son and I am single with no children. When things were good, they were great. We were very compatible. Th...

A.   28 September 2008: respect yourself and dont ever look back,you have made the right decision here he needs proffesional help not a loving woman... (read in full...)

My abusive boyfriend dumped me and I'm devastated!

Q.   My abusive boyfriend dumped me and i am devastated and torn i know it was for the best but im consumed with pain and confusion because i did everything for him i forgave him for cheating on me and getting his ex pregnant then cheating on me with ...

A.   28 September 2008: this man is worthless dont waste your time on a loser,you can do a lot better and love someone who loves you in the same way... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about my husband flirting with a coworker?

Q.   Hey i found out my husband has beeb texting a coworker female loads, he says it was just about work stuff as he has just got a new job and doesnt know how to do everything. So he says he was asking her how to do work stuff, and he said sometimes she ...

A.   28 September 2008: i would keep an eye on this something not quite right here,why the txting why not phone calls if its work related... (read in full...)

How do you tell people "we met on the internet" or do you?

Q.   Hi guys. I'm 22 and i'm a virgin - and had minimal experience with girls. I've decided I want to have sex whenever it feels right for me (i.e. not wait until I find 'the one', but a one night stand is a possibility if the opportunity pres...

A.   25 September 2008: loads of people meet on-line and end up in a relationship or even married,no shame in that... (read in full...)

My ex and I had an on/off relationship with him going back to hsi ex every time. I felt horrible and insecure to know they are together soon after our break up. Help!

Q.   I broke up with my ex two and a half weeks ago. Since then, I've been very good about not calling, and I was finally feeling good about myself and the situation. Then, yesterday, his ex-girlfriend's boyfriend wrote me a message over myspace telling ...

A.   24 September 2008: well she is a fool for having sex with him all this time he has been using her for sex and thats all it is,if and when he gets back with you or finds someone else it will happen again run to the ex for sex,your better off without this man he is a ... (read in full...)

My ex thinks I'm over him (but I'm not) - what can I do to pretend I don't care? How do I act around him and his new girlfriend?

Q.   well, i got dumped 6 weeks ago for another girl. It broke my heart, i really loved my ex - i think i still do but i know I can never get back with him. For the first couple of weeks I made it known to him and his new gf that I was hurt and wanted ...

A.   24 September 2008: firstly try to avoid being or going to places you might bump into them if you do happen to see them just a simple hi will be enough and smile at all times,and if your with a friend male/female make yourself laugh loudly so they will hear you,that ... (read in full...)

I really love this girl, and I don't want to lose her. What are my best options right now?

Q.   Hi there, I had been going out with my girlfriend for a year, and things were great, we never argued, we got on really well - as best friends, made each other laugh, and both really loved each other. Basically there were no problems whatsoe...

A.   24 September 2008: just go with the flow no pressure and see where you stand in a few weeks time,hopefuly things will be a lot clearer then.... (read in full...)

Is my friend gay? We fooled around a bit, but we never talk about it.

Q.   Is my friend gay? I am a bi guy still in the closet, and my best friend ,that is a few years younger than me, who clearly acts straight in public or around other friends, but when we drink alone he always likes to get get naked, and we always end up ...

A.   24 September 2008: if your friend is happy enough to sit and mastubate with you,sleep in the same bed as you then the signs are already there.you also said you fooled around before and he was a willing partner so he obviously enjoys your company and you sexualy,seems ... (read in full...)

He accuses me of going on dating sites to meet men!

Q.   pls can someone tell me why my partner constantly accuses me of going on dating sites, meeting men and sleeping with them. i have in the past been to chat sites and chatted, flirted a little but that is all its been, and only went there when we fell ...

A.   24 September 2008: why are you wasting your time trying to prove that your worthy of his love,if he is unable to see how much you love him then he dont deserve you or maybe he is trying to get out of being with you,because he`s himself is sleeping around has his ... (read in full...)

He watches porn even when I am in another room or in the same room, he just sits and stares at the computer images while ignoring me... I don't know how to handle this, it makes me feel bad and ignored.

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I have known for a while that he watches porn, we have watched it together and even bought various sex toys to use with each other. About a year and a half ago, he started using the computer. It took a wh...

A.   24 September 2008: im sorry to read that your husband shows you so much disrespect and constantly lies and deceives you,since you have already confronted him and he denies this i have to say he is an addict in denial,and needs help thats if he wants it,if not then i ... (read in full...)

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