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What's the point of remaining in a relationship that is never going to grow into something more?

Q.   My story is a little long, my major complaint is I don't believe in MEN anymore, or in my sense of judgement.. My ex boyfriend, I thought he was a real angel but he didn't treat me so great. Like I would always have to be the one to call him and ...

A.   7 August 2007: Men like your boyfriend make me mad, they give us all a bad name! This is a little strange, I can understand your confusion. Some people are scared of "love" they're worried about commitment and saying the word love...love isn't something you say ... (read in full...)

What should I do? She said she needs time to sort her head out but I haven't heard from her...

Q.   What shall I do?? I was with a girl who had just come out of a realtionship then jumped straight in one with me now she's finished with me, saying she needs time to think. Now she doesn't talk to me, doesn't text, doesn't ring or nothing. I know ...

A.   7 August 2007: Moral of this story. Never get into relationships with people you work with. This woman sounds like she doesn't know what day of the week it is. She's playing with your head and clearly doesn't care what this is doing to you. She doesn't sound very ... (read in full...)

We have sex 3 times a week... how many times is it therefore normal for him to please himself?

Q.   Can someone please tell me what would be "reasonable" and "normal" number, for a guy in a relationship (have sex about 3 times weekly or even more when schedules are not so busy) to mastrubate? Lets say we have great sex three times a week. What ...

A.   6 August 2007: There's no insruction manual that says whats normal and what's not. Everyone is different... (read in full...)

girlfriend wanted to end things but we are still kissing and cuddling. is this right?

Q.   Hi everyone, I would really appreciate advice on this matter as I have no idea where to turn. I'm in my early twenties and my girlfriend a few years older. We've been together for two years and living together for one. As far as I'm concerned, our ...

A.   6 August 2007: Dude, you need to speak to her and ask her what she's doing! She either wants you, or she doesnt...if she doesn't then she needs to stop playing with your head.... (read in full...)

I've been in a long distance relationship for 8 months, and we'll be together soon, but I don't know if I can forget our problems

Q.   Hey my name is Andrew I have been apart from my gf for about 10 months now and I will be back in less then 8 weeks. The problem im having is the following: I love her and I want to stay with her forever but I dont know if I can just forget everythi...

A.   5 August 2007: Dude, without knowing what the problems are its difficult for us to say what might happen. I mean, if she had an affair with your best mate, then no it might not go away, if she forgot to call you everyday then it will go away...You need to give us ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend goes out on the weekend and leaves me alone with our baby

Q.   Me an my boyfriend live together. We have an eight month old. He workd a 9-5 and i am almost done w/ college so i stay home w/ the baby accept for tue and thurs when i go to school. My boyfriend goes out every weekend fri, sat. Sometimes he ...

A.   5 August 2007: Your boyfriend needs to learn some responsibility. Having a child does affect your social life, no way about it. Also if he cared for you then he'd want to stay at home and see you. He sounds very selfish and like he's living life as if he's sin... (read in full...)

I feel embarrassed because of my virginity

Q.   I use to go out with a guy a long time ago for nearly a year. we broke up and then he went out with my best friend - which hurt me alot. Eventually they also broke up. By no means is he a great catch or anything but he continues to get girlfriend ...

A.   5 August 2007: You have no need to feel strange for still being a virgin. Most of your peers have a small mindedness about them where they think that sex is the whole world and if you havn't had it then there's something wrong. Having sex is something that is ... (read in full...)

I love him, but my mom doesn't. Should I choose him or my family?

Q.   I am totally in love. head over heels for this guy. there is a 7 year difference between us. my mother will not stand for it, and is trying to put him in jail because i am only 17. ive been with this guy {behind her back} for a year now, and I'm so ...

A.   5 August 2007: If in your heart you know that this is right for you, then choose love. Simple as. Parents who let their own opinions stop their offspring from being happy don't deserve to be parents. At 17 years old you have some idea of what you're doing. Y... (read in full...)

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