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Why did I dream of having a new boyfriend?

Q.   Ok well today I had a dream that I was at some restaurant with some friends and people that I didn't know. Well there was this guy across from me and he asked me to dance, then he asked me out and I said yes. I want to know what this dream means. ...

A.   7 August 2010: Well first of all it's a dream. It doesn't necessarily mean something. But maybe your subconscious is telling you that you're ready to move on. I think you may know that already too. So try to leave your ex behind, and get back out there. Dating's ... (read in full...)

Hungry all the time..painful stomach? Could be pregnant?

Q.   Hi, I'm 20years old I have been noticing unusual things about my body last night I layed on my stomach and it hurt really bad and I pushed on my stomach lightly and it was rock hard and I've been very hungry all the time for the past week could I ...

A.   7 August 2010: a) Have you had unprotected sex or protection didn't go as planned? b) when was your last missed period, and c) how long has this been going on? If you did have unprotected sex or haven't gotten your period, take a pregnancy test. If you haven't had ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend lacks confidence and doesn't believe me! What can do?

Q.   I'm 17 about to turn 18 soon and me and my boyfriend who i have been dating for about 3 years decided to have sex. the only problem was that i didnt bleed. i've heard that that isnt something to particullary worry about but my boyfriend is hung over ...

A.   7 August 2010: Show him an article or two that talks about how girls often don't bleed on their first, second or more times. He may not believe you, but if you show him actual medical articles, he'll have a hard time not to. WebMd is a good site. And take it easy ... (read in full...)

He is married with a child yet his texts are flirty and he seems to take an unusual interest in my Facebook page...

Q.   Not sure if I'm reading to much in to this but here goes. There was a guy at work who I barely knew and we ended up going on a course together with a couple of other people from work.  Since the course he emailed me frequently at work asking pers...

A.   6 August 2010: Ignore. Be polite but don't answer back texts and if he makes a comment on your facebook, say something "funny" like "you're such a weirdo, are you stalking me or something" in a joking way and laugh about it. It'll make him see that you don't ... (read in full...)

My Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex, did I make the right descion by taking him back?

Q.   My man cheated on me once with his ex-girlfriend,,the next week he told me,, but he was feeling guilty and didnt know how to tell me at first,,he cried in front of a lot people didnt care who was watching i was suprise that he would do such a ...

A.   6 August 2010: Only you can answer that. If you feel that you can slowly begin to trust him again and you feel he's genuinely sorry then yes. If in your gut you feel that you can never trust him again then your relationship is never going to be solid. So trust ... (read in full...)

I feel like I have been treated like a doormat!

Q.   I am seeing this guy who works a lot and travels very frequently. He's told me that he could not have a committed relationship at this point with his crazy work and travel schedule and I want to know if that is an excuse. We have had sexual ...

A.   6 August 2010: No it doesnt mean anything if he gives you a key, or wakes up and kisses you. His everyday actions is what defines a person and how he feels about you. Don't mistake sex for a relationship. If you feel you want more than that with him, then talk to ... (read in full...)

Should I just accept the fact that I am the one who has to do all the driving in our realtionship? Or should I be more assertive?

Q.   Hi Aunts, My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, we see eachother 3-4 times a week, if not more. He lives right near where I study, so it's pretty convenient for me to stay the night and go to class the next day. However, I'm the only one...

A.   6 August 2010: Hey Mervy, I would just talk to your bf about this. Tell him, "listen honey, i love seeing you and i love visiting, but i also would love for us to be equals on this. Is there a way that you can sometimes find a way to visit me instead? It would... (read in full...)

I feel like my 3 year relationship has been a mistake and a lie, am I wrong?

Q.   So my ex and I broke up a year ago after dating for 2 years. We are still talking and we are still intimate, neither of us has been with someone else. Today I found out that he had kinda proposed to his ex saying "we will get married in the f...

A.   6 August 2010: Your time is wasted yes. Just cherish the moments you had together, remember why you broke up in the first place and move on. Sleeping with an ex does not mean you're getting back together. It just means you're sleeping with an ex. It's very easy to ... (read in full...)

Want to have sex, but don't want to tell him I'm a virgin!

Q.   I am a 29 year old virgin. This is not something I planned on, it just sort of happened. I am not religious at all, I simply have not found the right guy for me. I dated a guy for awhile when I was a teenager and he really took away my ...

A.   6 August 2010: I'll be blunt. If a guy really likes you, for who you are and for what he feels you have to offer him, then it won't matter if you are a virgin or not. If he wants to wait too it means he really values you and wants you both to get to a good place ... (read in full...)

In a relationship, but can't stop thinking about my ex!

Q.   I'm in a happy relationship of only 2 months, the guy i'm with i can't fault. Just one problem,, i can't stop thinking about my ex. I split up with him over a year ago because of drug use but i totally fell in love with him. We were together for ...

A.   5 August 2010: Oh sweetie, I'm going to be blunt. You're obviously in no place to be in a relationship with either man at this point in your life. Think about your current boyfriend: would you be ok if he couldn't stop thinking about an ex girlfriend even if he ... (read in full...)

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