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Bex37 - I'm 37 (kind of obvious), single, have a job, my own home, good friends. I've been in and out of relationships, had 2 fiances, a few affairs with married men, played the field. Everyone sees me as very practical, sensible, down to earth. I hate to confess it, but sometimes I'm just a ball of messed up insecurity! I have a very strong sense of right and wrong and I've never been afraid to express my opinions. I'd like to have a boyfriend again (one who's not married!) but it certainly wouldn't be the end of the world if I never meet Mr Right. I would definitely like to have more sex though............. Oops,is that inappropriate??

How can I tell my partner that its my time of the month??

Q.   I am a very private and personal person. The dilema is that I'm not sure how to tell my lover when its that time of the month. I usually just avoid him for those few days but he's recently been away for a month and wants to be intimate but I ...

A.   1 July 2008: Grow up! You've tagged your age as between 30 and 35 so presumably this isn't your first boyfriend and he's somewhere around the same age. Being 'private' is no excuse for not being an adult. Simply say 'sorry it's that time of the month. Can I take ... (read in full...)

How to get a shy guy to understand how much I like him?

Q.   I work with a really great man and over the last few months I've fallen in love with him. There's no question that there is a chemistry between us but he's very shy and lacks self-confidence so nothing has actually happened other than lingering ...

A.   1 July 2008: Well, I asked him out and he turned me down flat. No reason given. The end. Boo hoo. ... (read in full...)

He seems perfect. Why do I feel so insecure?

Q.   my boyfriend has never cheated on me, doesn't flirt or look at other girls, tells me i've been better to him than any past girlfriends and makes it clear how picky he is in meeting people. he's not a party guy, very level headed, turning 29, can ...

A.   22 June 2008: He sounds great (lucky you!) so I think you need to question your own reasons for feeling so insecure. Have you been cheated on before? If you've been together years then presumably you do trust him - is this jealousy something new or have you ... (read in full...)

I feel undermined in my marriage and get no joy from it, how can I... take action?

Q.   I have been married for 15 years. I have been unhappy and unfulfilled. I have not had any / hardly any sex for at least half that time with my husband. The reasons are many and varied on my part. I no longer find my husband emotionally attractive ...

A.   22 June 2008: Sometimes things just end. Relationships end. And life is definitely too short to be unhappy and risk your health. It will take all the courage you can possibly muster but judging from what you've written, I think you know that deep down your only ... (read in full...)

Will there be someone for me?

Q.   Will there be someone for me? I'm 27, have a successful career and am smarter than most peers my age. I've dated a couple of times but things did not work out. As I read the questions on this site...seems like there's a lot of bad guys out there - ...

A.   22 June 2008: If you're a smart 27 year old with a successful career, what's the big deal about finding Mr Right? You're dating, you're having fun - why focus on the fining 'the one'? Men are attracted to confident women and confidence comes from being yourself ... (read in full...)

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