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Am I wrong to consider porn cheating?

Q.   So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and the relationship is going pretty well so far. The only thing that really bothers me, and I have expressed myself, is the fact he watches porn on his days off while I'm at work. In my ...

A.   12 September 2014: personally porn is not cheating but i never consider any guy should watch them because in reality its like he crave something better and not just that the idea of him watching makes me feel like im only his side kick :/ even though porn gives a new ... (read in full...)

Is a 20-Year-Old Girl Too Young For a 35-Year-Old Guy?

Q.   I'm 20, going on 21 very soon, and I've recently met a 35-year-old guy whom I really fancy through a friend at work (I have a full-time career as I never went to university). He definitely isn't my usual "type," and we have some quite significant ...

A.   12 September 2014: i say its fine im 19 but liking a 28 year old man i had a crush on him for years but the only way to know how he feels about you is if you tell him how could he know if you never ask or take a risk asking who knows he might just like you back-... (read in full...)

I hooked up with a friend after a break up and now am worried I might be pregnant

Q.   I just recently got out of a relationship with a man I was with for a year. He didn't break up with me formally. We had our last date then he ignored me and gave me the silent treatment until I realized (a month later) that this was his cowardly way ...

A.   12 September 2014: first of all im not judging you but that wasnt really smart sleeping with a guy who has a gf is not right he will never care if you have a baby or not besides that even if you are pergnant he can easily say that the kid isnt mine shes a hoe... (read in full...)

If I leave my wife it will be for the right reasons, but it would be a comfort to know this friend is out there

Q.   I have read many questions of women wondering if they should date a man after he divorces if he shows interest in you before he actually divorced. This may be long to explain, so I will try to be as brief as possible as this question is from the ...

A.   12 September 2014: if its not working out you need to be upfront and tell her otherwise she wouldnt know your thinking /:... (read in full...)

Friend of 2 years gone but why???

Q.   I have been friends with this guy for nearly 2 years and we were like brother and sister ( best friends) then out of the blue he says he doesn't want to be friends anymore and for me to leave him alone!! He won't give me a reason and some of my ...

A.   12 September 2014: your friends right. he clearly loves his gf and respects her wishes give them personal space they need alone boundiers ;o... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's sexual drive is waaaay higher than mine!

Q.   Hello everyone, I need your advice. Im 20, my boyfriend is 22. We are in a relationship for a year now. My boyfriend is the first guy I slept with and I love him more than anyone on this world. The thing is, his sexual drive is waaaay bigger t...

A.   12 September 2014: best i can tell you is that tell him what he likes and what certain things he enjoy maybe that will help ease the pain but if hes being too rough well then you should explain it hurts can you wait like have patients there are other ways on how to h... (read in full...)

Is there a chance for this relationship?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately... I've been feeling a bit left out because he has a large group of friends and a new job and so on. We've still been hanging out and when we do it has been really nice and great just like ...

A.   12 September 2014: i went through the same problem as you the best i can tell you is give him some space so it doesnt come out clingy or to needed even though the attraction isnt there theres always hope staying friends can actually rebuild the relationship by talking ... (read in full...)

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