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Boyfriend becomeing distant...help...advice?

Q.   The guy I've been dating for 5 months is becoming really distant and I don't know what to do. At first we saw eachother 4 times a week and everything was great. He opened up to me and text or called throughout the day. Now we only see each other ...

A.   6 November 2008: It's time he clarified exactly what jaded from his ex wife means to him. This is not really a good enough answer in my books what does that mean for you for example in the sense that there's two of you in this relationship. A long chat about what ... (read in full...)

Dilemma! I can't get him out of my mind and I'm married now...

Q.   I have been married for almost 2 1/2 years and things have gone relatively well. We have a baby boy that just turned one. I dated another gentlemen before I got married for 3 years and it didn't work out. However I have thought about him every day ...

A.   23 October 2008: This is common so dont blame yourself you cant help feeling this way i know you may feel guilty towards your son and husband for these feelings but you have to push that aside for the time being and look rationally at the problem here for a second ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of his empty promises.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and been living together for 2. Recently I went into his phone to text myself (couldn't find my phone) and there were messages to and from this girl he used to work with, "Vanessa". We've...

A.   23 October 2008: Really i feel for you because it happened to me over a long period of time and emails as well in the end. Think it's a good time to point out that initially if both parties in the relationship are happy it's ok to text female/male friends because ... (read in full...)

Now that I've let him go, will he come back to me after we spend some time apart?

Q.   hello everyone, ive been having trouble dealing with my recent breakup. two months ago my ex broke up with me out of the blue because he said he felf 'disconnected' from me and that the distance between us was too much (im going to a university in ...

A.   23 October 2008: So very concerned for you so much that maybe you should of seen someone in the end i'm not always for medication but things aren't black and white. If you need help don't feel bad or silly for asking for it because you get one life and you must ... (read in full...)

I need some female advice....

Q.   sorry, this is a long one.... So, this girl and I at work have become fantastic friends. We only met 6 months ago, but it all happened so quickly, we just tell each other everything, and understand each other so well. She has a long term BF, wh...

A.   21 October 2008: Hmmm are you sure you don't have feelings for her?? I'm not convinced!! if you say so i guess only you know what angle you're looking at here right. Ok a female perspective well if she's like me or my friends she would want to get things out in t... (read in full...)

Now that I've let him go, will he come back to me after we spend some time apart?

Q.   hello everyone, ive been having trouble dealing with my recent breakup. two months ago my ex broke up with me out of the blue because he said he felf 'disconnected' from me and that the distance between us was too much (im going to a university in ...

A.   21 October 2008: My heart really goes out to you because we have all been there but i cant tell you that there's no guarantee he will come back sorry if this hurts you. Even if he does come back and wants to make another go of it things were hard the first ti... (read in full...)

How do I get over it?

Q.   So heres the thing.... I have this ex boyfriend (I'll call him jay) and I'm still in love with him but I recently found out that he's with another girl and I actually saw pictures of them making out. I can't stop crying over all of the pain I'm ...

A.   16 October 2008: Please understand that this is not meant in a partonshing way at all but your first love may always stay with you because it's the most memorable but you are so young and have your future spread out before you. I'm afraid it will hurt right now a... (read in full...)

I don't want to get hurt by my ex again and feel we're getting too close.

Q.   Early last year me and the ex split up and two weeks later he started going out with another girl, claiming he wasn't ready for a relationship. He cheated on her a few times with me and broke up with her twice. We had a few fallings out but were ...

A.   15 October 2008: I really feel for you because i've just had the same situation but went much further with it and have been through all the emotions that go with feeling something for the ex again. I wish it on nobody because you loved them, went through the ... (read in full...)

Stomach cramps whilst on microgynon.

Q.   Please help! Im on 3rd pack of microgynon pills and have recently started having sex without condoms, just the pill as protection. Might seem dumb as I don't want to get pregnant, but contraceptive nurse said its the pill that stops the pregnancy. ...

A.   13 October 2008: Firstly dont panic! easier said than done i know but seriosul;y we have all been there and worrying will make things worse. Womens bodies can olay tricks with the mind it's easy to get carried away and think the worse when every cycle and its ... (read in full...)

How can we get out of this vicious circle of annoyingness!?!?

Q.   Where do i begin? I love my girlfriend to bits in fact more than i have loved anyone before, and i know she feels the same. we are crazy about each other! We have been together for around a year (on and off), im british and she is dutch. I...

A.   12 October 2008: Oh dear i'm sorry you seem to have found yourself in a difficult and almost soul destroying situation. I cant tell you what to do but i have been in a similar situation and communication is key! I'm worried you seem to be focusing on this... (read in full...)

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