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My fiancee is addicted to porn!

Q.   I have been in a previous relationship which ended badly, leaving me insecure about my looks and myself. I gradually got over this and have built up my self esteem. A couple of years ago I got into a relationship with a fantastic guy, with 1 flaw. ...

A.   24 June 2009: He is a sex addict. Just as an alcoholic, he needs treatment. If he won't get treatment, he will not stop. Sexual addiction is harder to kick than alcohol or drugs and cannot be done without treatment and a strong desire to change because it is a ... (read in full...)

He still looked at porn after we had sex. Is he addicted or something because he said that when we don't have sex he is horny and needs porn, but we did have sex.

Q.   I need some major advice from all you guys out there. Please just give me your opinion on this subject. I live with my boyfriend of 9 months. We are very happy together and a few months ago I noticed that he had been to porn websites. I asked hi...

A.   24 June 2009: He's an addict. He's a liar. He's inconsiderate. He's supporting an industry that destroys women. Is that enough?... (read in full...)

Pornography, cheating & lying

Q.   my husband is watching porn and lying to me about it and every time i offer sex he makes up excuses like im tired or im sore. i have confronted him several times and i go through the history on the computer and his phone. there is porn sites. what ...

A.   24 June 2009: Looking at pornography more than once a year is not normal. Grown-ups don't look at pornography, adolescents of all ages do Pornography is a way to distance oneself from one's partner (and probably any partner, not just you.) Masturbating ... (read in full...)

Is he cheating or am I overreacting??

Q.   Ugh! I feel I am going crazy and I need some advice from you all -- regarding cheating. First of all I'd like to state that I am pregnant and since becomming pregnant I've not been my usual self, so I feel I can not see clearly at times. Anyhoo, ...

A.   24 June 2009: Men who are addicted to pornography are incapable of being in a relationship. Their sexual partner of choice is themselves, and girlfriends and wives come second. Sexual addiction is like alcoholism or any other addiction, demands for more of ... (read in full...)

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