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Is this email chick hitting on my boyfriend?

Q.   I just saw an email from a girl to my boyfriend, i don't know if i'm being way too sensitive, but in the email she says. "I so need to see the sun. I want to get out of town. Seriously. Some place hot?" is she trying to attract my boyfriend or am I ...

A.   14 January 2007: This is a question that really doesnt have a definate answer. It would be possible for anyone to know for sure what the motives of the girl really are. What I would focus on is how your boyfriend reacts to this. I could read that and take no sexual ... (read in full...)

Why does he like to ejaculate on my belly?

Q.   Can you tell me why the man in my life always ejaculates all over my stomach, what does it mean?...

A.   14 January 2007: I'm sorry if this seems harsh, I do not wish to cause any offence but, why are you asking us this? If this is a serious issue for you, then there is only one person you should ask. You really need to open communication with him otherwise this ... (read in full...)

Did I make a fool of myself on the BBW dating site?

Q.   After being single for 5 years i thought i would give internet dating a shot, so a few months ago i signed up for a bbw dating site (as im a big girl myself i thought it best as i wouldnt have to explain about my size later on if i did meet ...

A.   14 January 2007: I know i'm a little young so feel free to disregard my advice but this seems a case of what if? Let's just pretend you saw this guy on the website but didn't build up the courage to email him, what would be going trough your head right now? would ... (read in full...)

Do I need help? Can't stop myself from looking at porn and I want to stop!

Q.   dear cupid, im 17 years old and i keep looking on the internet for porn, i only look at it because there is nothing else to look at. I try to tell myself not to go on it but i just do. Do i need some kind of help? i have been doing this for over a ...

A.   14 January 2007: Looking at pornography is a completly normal process. Its certainly nothing to be ashamed of. You started when you was 16 and you are now 17, you're still going through puberty, you have raging hormones inside you that you can't control. The real ... (read in full...)

How much does a guy expect from a virgin? I'm so nervous!

Q.   my boyfriend and i are ready to take things to the "next level" problem is im a virgin and extremely nervous..the question is how much does a guy expect from a virgin for first time sex together and what can i do so i dont seem like im doing ...

A.   14 January 2007: If you and you're boyfriend are truly ready for sex then its obvious he will be understanding of your doubts and paranoia. It may seem awkward at first but the key is proper communication. Because this is your first time together, he isn't going to ... (read in full...)

Since we started having sex together--he stopped saying he loved me? Any thoughts?

Q.   I'd like to hear what some guys think. My bf and I have been together about 2 years now. we never said i love you all the time the way some couples do, but usually when one of us said it, the other would say it back. Maybe not every time (it ...

A.   14 January 2007: Just because a guy doesnt say it as often as you would like, it doesnt mean he doesnt love you anymore. If he is so busy and yet he still makes the time to dedicate to seeing you, isnt that implying that he still wants to be with you and he stil ... (read in full...)

How long should a guy last on his first time?

Q.   Hi i was wodering how long men norally last on there first time...

A.   14 January 2007: I know, being male myself, that with the first time, it can be very easy to get carried away and over excited, we have all been there. However one thing you have to realise is that sex shouldn't be timed, its not a competition with anyone. All you ... (read in full...)

Im only 15 but there are lots of girls that ask me to have sex with them... What should I do ??

Q.   i am 15 years old and there are alot of girls that ask me if i want to have sex with them should i just not pay atention to them or wat should i do? ...

A.   13 January 2007: At 15 I have serious doubts as to wether your body is even ready for sex. Your body and mind all have to be ready for something as big as sex, espically for the first time. Take it from me, the slightest nervousness or doubt and nothing will happen ... (read in full...)

I was going to lose my virginity but I couldn't get an erection!

Q.   i am 15 years old and today i was going to have sex for my first time, but i couldent get an erection. could this have been from being nervous or something else?...

A.   13 January 2007: 15! I don't think I even knew about sex when I was 15, but anyway away from my sad life, it's mostly nerves, there are other factors, alcohol,drugs,tiredness none of them are any good. My best advice is concentrate on the foreplay, it will relax ... (read in full...)

I'm an 18 year old virgin and I freak out and stop whenever I'm about to lose it!

Q.   im nearly 18! and still a virgin and every1 thinks that i am not cause of the way i come over (but i havnt told them i am a virgin 2 be honest) anywayss i have been in the situation many times!! but some how it always doesnt happen! i always stop! ...

A.   13 January 2007: Look I know you might disregard my opinon more than others seeing as im male, but believe me, what you're going through happens to both sexes, you really aren't alone in what you're thinking. I lost my virginity when I was 19, on an uncomfortable ... (read in full...)

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