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Love my guy but he loves other things

Q.   Hello. I just started dating ds guy who has been my friend for seven years and has been asking me out all those seven years. I love him fearly, God knows I do. But right now, I feel very alone and I'm wondering if I've not made a mistake. I've ...

A.   27 May 2012: I have known a man exactly like this, and nothing changed him not even marriage and a baby. His wife got tired of him always being busy; even when he is home, she is alone. She is quite unhappy in this marriage because she is always 2nd, 3rd, 4th ... (read in full...)

Need some info and insight about having sex on a girl's period. Help?

Q.   I'm in a real pickle about this one. My current girlfriend and I trust each other enough to have unprotected sex, and of course I get that feeling that I want to cum inside of her, although I can always control that urge. Me and her were talking ...

A.   27 May 2012: One can become pregnant at any time, yes, even whilst she is on her period. Do not risk this by not using protection. ... (read in full...)

My fiance likes to act out that I'm a virgin and he's dominating me when we have sex. Is this normal?

Q.   Most of the times that my fiance Nd I have sex he plays out me to be a virgin and that his taking over me and he says things such as, ( no one can hear you, can you feel that pressure while its ripping your thinght virgin p***y.) Or he covers my ...

A.   27 May 2012: Role-Playing can be normal, but it has to please you both. I believe that if you do not also enjoy this rough fantasy, than it is a bit sadistic sounding. Does he play out any other fantasies with you? Do you make wonderfully sweet gentle l... (read in full...)

If you love someone will you change for him?

Q.   If someone expects you to change for him, is it love? If you love someone will you change for him? My boyfriend and I have been in disagreement recently. He expects me to understand his religion so that I can understand why he is a vegetarian a...

A.   26 May 2012: 9 times out of 10 when someone expects you to change for them, it is not love. They also tend to keep demanding changes of you. In extreme cases, they make you into someone other than yourself. Religion is deeply personal, and shouln't be compr... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has feelings for his best friend so I broke up with him

Q.   so i told my boyfriend. about this website and how you could ask for advice. and its confidential so he went on and he asked a question" saying i am 16 male. ive been with my girlfriend for 8 months but i have sum feelings for my besfriend should i ...

A.   26 May 2012: If he truly does have feelings for his BFF, it is wise to leave him and find someone who has feelings only for you. Are you absolutely certain he wrote it?... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend brings my confidence down!

Q.   My x bf and I still talk after 2 years of being broken up. Well recently I found out he got his 15 year old fiance pregnant when he's 19 and in the Army! So I decided to ask him about it because I saw pictures/status's from his friends and family on ...

A.   26 May 2012: Perhaps you are better off not speaking with him. Do not let him erode your self-confidence. I wonder if it is making him nervous that his pregnant fiancee is underage. Congrats on early graduation, BTW. ... (read in full...)

Wife and I have been married 10 years. Should we throw out photos of our exs?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for over 10 years but have just had some old possessions dropped off at our house by our parents / parents in law. Funny timing that they all dropped off boxes at about the same time. A lot of this is stuff fr...

A.   26 May 2012: I would keep the most important ones, but put them away in an album in a box in the cupboard, attic, or other mostly hidden location. ... (read in full...)

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