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I'm in love with my married boss!

Q.   I'm madly in love with my boss. He's the company president and I'm his executive assistant. He's very good-looking and smart. I can't stop myself from faliing for him. He's living alone now but he's married and have kids in california which is very ...

A.   22 September 2011: This sort of thing never ends well,if and when it does, you will be the one with the short end of the stick in every way. You will lose your job, self respect, dignity and you will be hurt. Be professional!! get your own boyfriend and stop idol... (read in full...)

I'm suspicious of what went on at this bachelor party

Q.   My boyfriend went on a bachelor party out of town for the weekend with his friends recently. He's already gone on a few of them before during our relationship and has always been good about communicating, even if it's just at the end of the night to ...

A.   22 September 2011: Okay, Something probably happened and you have loads of reasons to doubt him. Whatever you find out will hurt you and if you allow it your relationship but i would advice you to go all out and have some fun on your own (no texting him, no calling, ... (read in full...)

What can I do to keep myself busy until I go to Uni next year? All my friends have moved away and I'm depressed about not going to Uni this year....

Q.   Hi all, im feeling really depressed and i know its only going to get worse. I want to be a midwife and my school adviser told me to apply for the midwifery course straight away. I did this, and got rejected. This being because they prefer you ...

A.   8 September 2011: I feel you and i understand what you are going through. However, it is time for you to use this time wisely, since you want to be a midwife/ nurse how about some volunteer work in a home or a nearby hospital? You could acquire a new skill duri... (read in full...)

Why is my mom so upset about the way my husband and I treat each other?

Q.   Hello, I am a 31 year old married woman. You have given me great advice in the past. Here is my problem: This is a little long with background. My father and my husband get along great. My dad usually calls him, son, when he talks to him; ...

A.   6 September 2011: First I must commend you for the way you stand up for what you want and know how to get it despite the pressure from all sides. Your mum probabble had a bad experience in the past that has infected her perception of all men. The truth is that you... (read in full...)

I don't want this relationship to end but I just don't know what else I can do?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years, he has always had a problem with expression his emotions, its his up bringing, all his brothers are the same, find it hard to express how they feel and put feelings into words. He became depresses so ...

A.   6 September 2011: I like the fact that you know and agree that he has a condition that causes him to act the way he does. I think you should seek counselling together, that way he gets the sort of help he needs and you can both sort out your feelins and issues.... (read in full...)

I'm gay, my wife says I can look not touch and my b/f won't be with me unless I'm single!

Q.   Here it is I have been married for three years, and have a 3yr old son. Im gay but my wife thinks im bi, she tells me i can look at guys but can't touch. To top it all off I have a boyfriend who only wants to be with me if im not married. I feel ...

A.   6 September 2011: Just leave. Nothing good will come out of your staying married. You owe it to yourself to be happy and give your wife and child a chance to be too even if it's without you. It's easy to deduce from your tone that you'd rather be with your boyf... (read in full...)

Life After "Cheating"

Q.   First I'll explain the sitch...So I've been seeing this amazing guy that I'm crazy about and that scares me.. I hate when I guy gets a hold of your heart and breaks it.. and he's getting there.. so the other night ...

A.   6 September 2011: I think you are taking this 'relationship' a bit too seriously and you need to take it easy and slow down. Take small steps, allow him to make the first move a take cue from him. If he does not want to be exclusive then accept that and see where it... (read in full...)

I cant ever imagine getting divorced over this, but I am not attracted to my wife! What should I do?

Q.   I don't know who to turn to for advice because this is such a sensitive subject. Over the last couple of years I have been losing attraction to my wife and even finding her repulsive at times. I am not a superficial person but it has been building ...

A.   2 August 2011: I think you a really a good person for coming out like this. Every relationship has it rough patches so for a start we might consider this as one of yours. If you are really not a superficial person, you need to sit and make a list of the pros and ... (read in full...)

2 years and now he just wants to be friends? What happened?

Q.   My bf of 2 years has been paying less and less attention to me and we've been having less sex (once or twice month). I was sad at first but got used to it until I realized I was flattered and happy to get attention from other guys. I thought I ...

A.   2 August 2011: If it aint broken why fix it, it seems you have both out grown the relationship and maybe you might have a better realtionship as friends. The good thing about this is that you still stay frineds so if there is s possibility of getting back ... (read in full...)

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