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I think I need therapy, but I don't know where to start...

Q.   I'l try and keep this short. My friends have advised me to seek therapy, but i am not sure what to type to seek and if there are other ways in which to help me. Basically, since the age of around 17 I have been getting increasingly obs...

A.   10 May 2010: girl, the best way to deal with this is talking to ur doctor. they'll get u the right theropy... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is pregnant with another man's child, and he wants none of the responsibility...so what should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend of 3years is pregnant for another man that she just broke up with and he doesnt want any part of the responsibility. waht should i do?...

A.   23 February 2010: convice her to keep the baby, and be a man and treat it like ur own. :)... (read in full...)

Dating 5 years and he never has invited me to his house to meet his roomies!

Q.   Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. A year ago he moved into a house with 3 girls and 1 guy. He never once asked me what I thought about this arrangment. A year later it still bothers me and we fight about it at least once every 2 ...

A.   23 February 2010: okay, lets be logical, he's living with 3 girls he doesn't want u to meet...u should just talk to him and ask him why u haven't met them yet, and if that doesn't work it theres prob a reason why he doesn't want u too me them... (read in full...)

Both my ex and my current boyfriend want me to have an abortion, but I want another child. What do I do?

Q.   I am 8 weeks pregnant and I know it is my ex - boyfriend's kid. He and my boyfriend wants me to have a abortion. my friend wants me to keep the baby and she promised to be there for me. I dont know what to do. she had an abortion from when she was ...

A.   23 February 2010: well i am completely against abortion, it's wrong to kill a innocent child, so i think u should keep the child. it's not just ur boyfriend's decision. u'll have ur friends to be there for u, theres not reason why u should have the abortion :)... (read in full...)

How to break up with violent man?

Q.   I am having a hard time breaking it off with my boyfriend of 3.5 years. He is potentially violent and avoiding him does not seem to work. He shows up every where I go and ends up knocking on my window in the middle of the night. I try to keep his ...

A.   23 February 2010: my mother went throu just talk to him, and keep a phone in ur hand so it's eaiser to dial 911 if nessasary, but if the damaging thing continues, u might wanna get a restraining order... (read in full...)

My boyfriend prefers to spend time with his friends instead of talking out our problems!

Q.   my boyfriend is almost perfect and we have great time.. sometimes he is the one how seems to love me more and he treats very nice to me.. BUT when we have a fight he becomes incurious and he seems that he doesn't really cares to work it ...

A.   23 February 2010: i think he just feels overwelmed and he needs his space, but u should wait for u both to cool down, and maybe slowly bring it up at a more apporpriate time... (read in full...)

The last straw! But I don't know what to do.

Q.   Ive been with my boyfiend for almost 4 years now, and ive put up with so much of his stuff it pushed me to the last straw. he went out to eat with another girl on valentines day and she stayed the night. he says nothing happened and he didnt pay but ...

A.   23 February 2010: u might not like this answer, but u need to DUMP HIM!, u need ur man to respect u.... (read in full...)

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