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Contraception and what would suit me best?

Q.   Hi All, Ok, so being at Uni, life has moved pretty fast, and I've found myself falling for an amazing guy, we've been together for a few weeks. We've been sleeping together and I'm currently on the pill. We are both clear of STIs, so that's not a ...

A.   18 March 2010: IUD’s are pretty good because they do not make you gain weight and you never need to worry about them. But, you will probably bleed a lot more for the first year. The less regular your periods were in the past the more you will bleed in the ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?

Q.   hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...

A.   18 March 2010: I did not read all of the comments because there was a lot so if someone already said this I am sorry. I love my husband’s cum and I think you should remind her that it is part of you and in loving you she should love all you, cumpletely. This was ... (read in full...)

Are my husband's lies a cause for alarm?

Q.   Why does my husband lie to me so much? Sometimes it is about important things, in which case he usually tells the truth after words. Sometimes, though, I lies about other general less important things. IE: Once he made the comment that, “Oh, well ...

A.   18 March 2010: LonelyTwo’s comment seemed to imply “tit for tat” and that I was making the age difference an issue. If that was not the meaning I am really sorry. ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!

Q.   I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living w...

A.   18 March 2010: If you and your husband get your own house and she lives in one room, it is still your house. You can make the rules and she will need to fallow them. As to walking around in underwear you should have thought of that before you agreed to have her ... (read in full...)

Would you date a sociopath knowing how handsome many of them are?

Q.   I ask, because a lot of women say they prefer bad boys to so-called nice guys. Is a bad boy someone who who has a harley, wears a leather jacket and sleeps around, or is it a sociopath? Would you date a sociopath knowing how confident and ho...

A.   18 March 2010: I think a bad boy is quite simply a man who is bad. A sociopath does not mean someone who is adulterous or mean such as most bad boys are. Some bikers can really nice and faithful, so interests and clothes can not be the defining factor. Also, I ... (read in full...)

How would you take this compliment?

Q.   OK I gave this lady I like a compliment in a round about way here is the way it happened. I feel this lady is attracted to me but I was walking with her co-worker and she was communicating with her back and forth while we were walking together...

A.   18 March 2010: No one said this but, she might think you were making fun of her. You kind of said it behind her back and it could have sounded sarcastic if she could not see your body language. You should really try talking directly to her. Also, try not to laugh ... (read in full...)

Are my husband's lies a cause for alarm?

Q.   Why does my husband lie to me so much? Sometimes it is about important things, in which case he usually tells the truth after words. Sometimes, though, I lies about other general less important things. IE: Once he made the comment that, “Oh, well ...

A.   17 March 2010: I hope that you are not implying that I am in some kind of quid pro quo relationship because that is most certainly not the case. Thank you all for your comments. They have shed some light on this situation. ... (read in full...)

After how many dates is it ok to have sex?

Q.   So I met this guy (We'll call him Mike) in September. It took us a while to finally get together, but in January we went on our first date. In February, Mike and I went on two dates (the second of which, we kissed for the first time and ultimately ...

A.   17 March 2010: You need to think about the possibility that the relationship will end. Will you regret your actions? You should wait until you know there is mutual love between you two. As to fellatio, I think it is very special but I think that the one perf... (read in full...)

I really need some help with my insecurities and depression, what steps can I take?

Q.   I'm 26 and am in a relationship with a lovely guy, aged 27, and have been for almost 18 months. I suffer with severe depression and anxiety. I'm on anti depressants, (Sertraline), and I'm receiving counselling. I've been quite open over my feelings ...

A.   16 March 2010: You should tell your doctor if you are having harmful thoughts. Most medications take some time to get used to and in a little while you may not feel the same way, hopefully. If it does not even out you should talk to your doctor again about these ... (read in full...)

Are my husband's lies a cause for alarm?

Q.   Why does my husband lie to me so much? Sometimes it is about important things, in which case he usually tells the truth after words. Sometimes, though, I lies about other general less important things. IE: Once he made the comment that, “Oh, well ...

A.   16 March 2010: Thank you for all of your comments. A lot of them make sense but not in my situation. My husband is much older then I am and makes most of the decisions. He is not controlling, however, I would never dare to be jealous or show any displeasure. Plus, ... (read in full...)

How can I make her 'want' to have sex with me, instead of only doing it because I want it?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 1 year, and things have been going really well. The only thing that we fight about is sex. She is not a sexual person, she told me this. We started off dating having sex frequently, but then stopped for 5 months, ...

A.   16 March 2010: A lot of people get more pleasure from pleasuring others and this my be the case with her. When she is doing it for you it may really be for her. Try thanking her for what she gives you and trust when she tells you she is enjoying herself. She may ... (read in full...)

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