Should I quit my online flirting, even though neither of us takes it seriously?
Q. I want to know what others ppl's opinions are on flirting. I am a bit of a flirt and enjoy it, I have always been this way and always thought it was harmless unless you acted upon it. I play an online game with a male friend that my partner do...
A. 25 October 2005: If you care about your partner and he has told you that it upsets him then stop doing it. You just said yourself that its only a bit of fun so why ruin your relationship over it and risk upsetting your partner.
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My girlfriend would rather break up than work on our communication!
Q. Problem started when we really just stop communicating with each other. We were talking, but not really communicating. I was pretty fed up with that so I confronted her and gave her two options: - 1. We work hard to try to revive our relationship...
A. 25 October 2005: If she doesnt want to work on communication then she either isnt ready for the commitment or is looking for a way out. Dont let it get you down, i know how it feels because i have been through it before and it hurts inside like mad. Just stay off ... (read in full...)
He cheated, repeatedly and with multiple partners, but now he wants to come back...
Q. My fiance just told me he's been cheating for the past year - off and on, no one in particular. His job takes him away for the majority of the year and definately puts him in the position to cheat, musician. I've kicked him out and told him it's ...
A. 25 October 2005: If he really loved you he would not have done it in the first place, if it was the once then i would have said talk it over with him but he has done it repeatedly and has ket it from you the whole time. If that doesnt answer your question then i ... (read in full...)
What should I do if my guy wants to have sex with me?
Q. I'm still a virgin, but the guy I'm currently in a relationship with isn't. I questioned him about his sexuality and he admitted to me that he had sex once or twice a month when he was in a long relationship, our relationship has just begun and I'm ...
A. 25 October 2005: If you love your boyfriend and you are sure that he loves you and that he isnt just with you for sex then take the step with him. You have to think about things beforehand though like how old you both are? how long you have been together? and of ... (read in full...)
I was drunk, I kissed another guy and I'm so ashamed. I really love my boyfriend!
Q. I really need your help. I have been dating this boy for the past two months. He is the best person I have ever met. I love him so much and feel totally ashamed at what happened over the weekend in what was a drunken moment at at a party. I got dru...
A. 25 October 2005: Look, you were drunk, if you tell him he will probably dump you, even though it would be the honest thing to do i dont think in this case its the best thing to do. Keep it to yourself, chances are he wont find out. Just dont do it again, if you do, ... (read in full...)
I'm on eggshells most of the time, trying to avoid getting into an argument with my partner...
Q. My partner and I have been together two years. He has only said 'I love you' to me once, in the very begining. He says he doesn't know if he loves me and he says 'sometimes I do', but he never actually says those three little words. We argue a ...
A. 23 September 2005: Finish with him! i know its hard, i was with someone for 5 years since i was 14 years of age, i loved him so so much, it hurt when he left me, my heart was beating for him, i cant explain how i felt for him, i adored every part of him. He treated me ... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about getting married to my fiance! Help!
Q. I am engaged and I am having second thoughts. I love him with all of my heart but I dont know if he is the one. How do I tell him?...
A. 24 June 2005: Tell him exactly what you just wrote. Apart from the bit where its said you dont think he is the one. Tell him, even though you love him you are not ready to get married and that you have both got so much time together before you make that ... (read in full...)
My g/f has been seeing my best mate, but I only hate him. Why?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'd been dating a fantastic girl for over a year when she dumped me last week. Things have been difficult for a few months as I had a new job and she was in the run-up to her final exams at university. Yesterday I discovered she's...
A. 10 June 2005: Dont get revenge. It never works and it only comes back to nip you in the butt at the end of it. She isnt worth it by the sounds of it. The reason she is doing it is probably because she knows you will take her back. Dont give in this time. Next ... (read in full...)
Recently, he asked if we could have an open relationship and if he could sleep with our new flatmate...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months next week and living together for 8 months. Over the last few weeks he has been hot and cold and recently asked if he could sleep with our new flatmate or have an open relationship. I was hurt as ...
A. 10 June 2005: Tell him where to stick it! he isnt worth it girlfriend. No one in their right minds would ask their girlfriend that question. Is he a bit of a nutter?!! i would have gone mad!! If he really meant it then tell him, that you think its time you bot... (read in full...)
I'm suspicious of everyone, because I'm so afraid of getting hurt!
Q. I am so messed up in the head. I just don't know the difference between what's right and wrong or what's the truth or a lie. I don't even know if I can trust my good mates. I am always so suspicious around everyone. I just can't help it cause I am ...
A. 10 June 2005: I was in the same boat. CHILL OUT! If they don't treat you like their friend, they're NOT your friends!!! Its their loss. I would much rather have 1 good friend, or even none at all, than have a million people who aren't really my friends, if you ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want a relationship, but there are lots of other things that she wants!
Q. dear sir/madam How can I help my best friend who loves a girl deeply, but this girl does not want a relationship, but wants my best friend to pay her college fees and apartment for her, as well? And he agrees to help, but she doesnt want him to l...
A. 10 June 2005: Sit down with your friend and tell him that you think this girl is using him! because thats what she is doing. If she can get everything she wants from him so easily then she is going to play on it. Tell him exactly how you feel. Its up to him to ... (read in full...)
I know in my heart that my ex-husband still wants us to be together, but he's too scared to suggest a reconciliation!
Q. This is very complicated. My ex husband and I had a child before we were married. He bailed after he found out I was pregnant. We reconciled when our son was 8 mos. old. Married for 3 years. Been divorced for 3 years. We broke up mainly b...
A. 10 June 2005: Write him a letter. It's always the best way to deal with break ups!! tell him everything you feel, no matter how long it takes. He is definately more likely to read a letter 10 pages long, than to sit down and have a conversation with you where you ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of dating my brother's friend, but I'm afraid it might be a disaster.
Q. I'm 17 and I like one of my brother's close friends who is 20. I found out the other day that he liked me as well, and wanted to date me. When I talked to him 2 days ago through messenger, I stalled and kept him from really 'asking me out' by ...
A. 9 June 2005: Hi, dating your brothers friend isnt at all a problem! its up to you who you date and vice versa. If you want to be with him (and you're sure about it) sit down and speak with him and decide from there if you want to become an item. Dont hide it ... (read in full...)
I already know I'm gay, but I need to convince my mom to let me date...
Q. I'm gay and I found this guy that I really like. I want to date him but my mom thinks that my being gay is a phase... I need some way to convince her that I am old enough, and mature enough to start dating. Please Help Me. kthx...
A. 9 June 2005: Hello, your mum, isnt fully accepting this at all! from what you have said, she is probably trying to forget about it and by making herself believe that its "only a phase" its making her feel better. You have to understand things from your mum's ... (read in full...)
I'd like his friends to be my friends, too, but will that look odd?
Q. I want to be friends with my boyfriend's friends but I don't want to make it seem like I'm flirting with them. Everytime we're in a group, I go silent because I don't really know any of his friends. I'd like to get to know them but I only com...
A. 9 June 2005: Hello, i understand where you are coming from with this completely. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and his mates are my best of friends! my boyfriend loves the fact that they are as much my friends as they are his. When you are with ... (read in full...)
Because all I can think of is my ex, I can't seem to move on with my new boyfriend...
Q. I was with my ex bf for 4 years on and off. I was in love with him. He was my first love. We split up a few times and saw other people in between but we always came back to one another. We got engaged and 6 months later we split up. Sixmon...
A. 5 May 2005: There is always a chance of anyone getting back together! If you both really love each other, it doesn't matter how much you have "moved on". Some people get with other people because they are on the rebound! At first everything seems brilliant ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you don't fancy at first?
Q. I met a guy on holiday last September who I have become good mates with. We have had regular contact via text messaging since being back. I know that he would like us to be more than friends. He is perfect for me. He has all the qualities I look...
A. 5 May 2005: Hi, I have the same problem with my boyfriend at the moment. He is everything I want and always has been. I met him a year ago, at first I was just like you, I didn't know how I felt. I liked everything about him, I just didn't fancy him. A year... (read in full...)
I'm married, but starting to find other guys attractive... could I be bisexual?
Q. hello I was wondering if I was bisexual as another male took pics of me naked and played with my cock. I also have and given wanks and blowjobs and am starting to think of males again. I am married. anon ...
A. 15 April 2005: It doesn't nessecariliy mean that you're bi-sexual. You can still get turned on by the opposite sex but it doesnt mean you're gay, it just means you're normal. Everyone has different fantasies. If you only enjoy doing things with other blokes b... (read in full...)
We've broken up twice before, but I'm in love with my ex again...
Q. I broke up with my ex a year and a half ago. This was the second time we have been together. He was my first love and I was his. After our first break up we didn't talk for a long time, and when we did eventually start talking we got together...
A. 15 April 2005: Darlin', I'm in the same situation. Dont let it get you down. I know love can be painful. I was with my boyfriend for 5 years, since I was 14, I'm now 19 and we split up a year ago. I love him with all my heart, we split up so many times I lost cou... (read in full...)
We're both stubborn people and I need suggestions on how to tackle our "issues"...
Q. Im 20yrs old and my boyfriend is 35yrs old (divorced w/ a child). We've been dating for about a year and have been living together for about a year. Just recently we've been arguing 6 days straight. Every day is just another issue. We are both stu...
A. 15 April 2005: This sounds very familier! i am 19 years old (20 in July) i was with someone for 5 years, i got with him when i was 14 and i loved him very very much, but after a while it sought of seemed like he went off me. I couldnt establish any reason for it ... (read in full...)
Nothing works! I want to win his affections, but I don't know how...
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been trying and trying and trying with all of my might to impress my crush and win him over, but nothing I've done seems to be working!I've tried almost EVERYTHING-dressing trendily around him, laughing at all of his jokes, l...
A. 15 April 2005: First of all if you want to win him over you are going the completely wrong way about it, what you are doing wont work. He knows you like him so he's not going to just come out and say he likes you too because at the moment you are doing all the ... (read in full...)
My guy named his fantasy porn photo after my sister! Should I worry?
Q. My question is about sexual fantasies... My boyfriend and I have been dating for six years and a long time ago, I found some porn on his computer. I wasn't surprised at this, what I was surprised about was the fact that he had renamed the porn...
A. 14 April 2005: This sounds very unfair. That is just something you dont do. How do you know he isnt fantasising about your sister?! fair enough, looking at porn is acceptable but this isnt right. You need to speak to him about it before it starts to get you down. ... (read in full...)
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