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I've met a 50 year old who lives in his mother's garage.

Q.   I recently met a guy who is nearing 50. He has a full time job and has worked in the same place for 20 years. The problem? He lives in his mother's garage. He's not an addict, has a job, has a car, his kids are grown and gone. He's been divorc...

A.   14 April 2020:  I say give him a chance, he has a job and living in his parents garage gives him more money to save and put towards another place if he wants to move. He has been hurt in the past so I wouldn't blame him for taking it easy for a while and living ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of getting a vasectomy without telling my wife.

Q.   I'm thinking of getting a vasectomy behind my wifes back. We were only together four months when she got pregnant with our eldest son. She said she was on the pill, thats fine because these things happen and I love her and was pretty delighte...

A.   14 April 2020:  You need to speak to your wife and tell her how you feel, this gives her the opportunity to understand and make a decision about her future to.... (read in full...)

I've tried to include my half-siblings in my life but they don't seem interested

Q.   How do you deal with half-siblings who don't want you in their life? I grew up an only child. I have 3 half-siblings on my dad's side. For 7 years I've been trying to reconnect with them. They haven't seemed very interested. We've correspon...

A.   9 September 2014: This isn't good at all and I can understand your feelings of anger and upset. There is however only so much you can do to make an effort, it seems they are leading their own lives and think you should also do the same, if you feel an explanation is ... (read in full...)

Does he need time to recuperate or is he letting me down slowly?

Q.   Here's a little about what's going on with me. I'm dating a dad with joint custody of his children that is going through a financial crisis. Naturally, we haven't spent as much time together as I would like, but the communication as been limi...

A.   8 September 2014: It seems he has a lot on his plate at the moment and with him having financial troubles he would obviously feel obliged to pay if you went on a date which he cannot afford at this moment in time. Give him space and if he wants you he'll make an ... (read in full...)

I am shattered he didn't make an effort to keep his word to me!

Q.   Hi everyone, I am one mad girlfriend this morning but I don't know if I can be bothered to fight. I just want some advice on the best way to handle this. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and had arranged to spend this weeke...

A.   8 September 2014: This is very frustrating and I understand your anger completely, he was very ignorant for staying out past the time you agreed and he is a pratt for this, however if he got chatting to friends and was having fun the night would of gone faster then ... (read in full...)

Suddenly my best friend of several years has forgotten our friendship now that she has her 1st Bf. How do I deal with this?

Q.   I have been best friends with my best friend for over 6/7 years, however in the past year she has got her first proper boyfriend and since then she's totally forgotten about me. I used to see her all the time and always meet up with her and go ...

A.   8 September 2014: This does happen a lot, I can only suggest go out with your other Friends and have FUN! Don't dwell on the past and your 'best friend'. There is no law to say she should pick you over him or vice versa but she is going to do what makes her happiest ... (read in full...)

Should I Be Annoyed With My Boyfriends Mum?

Q.   I am a bit annoyed with my boyfriends mum. My boyfriends brother had a kid some months ago and his mum has that kids photo on her phone as a wallpaper instead of mine. I had my baby but she has not changed the photo from being of that other kid. ...

A.   8 September 2014: I understand your feelings of frustration but is this really a good enough reason not to speak to the Grandmother of your child? You said she is a nice lady which proves this isn't a mean move, maybe she is enjoying being a Grandmother to both ... (read in full...)

I asked him not to see his ex but he did

Q.   A few weeks back my boyfriend of over a year told me he was going to see his ex girlfriend because her sister was unwell and she'd asked for support. Theyve been broken up approximately 2 and a half years. My boyfriend and his ex had a bad break up. ...

A.   8 September 2014: This seems like a guy who wants to have it all. You are well in your right to not want him to see his ex and to be honest I can't quite understand why he would if they haven't been together for over 2 years. Express your concerns again and this time ... (read in full...)

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