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I am honest and maybe rather blunt but I will give you an honest answer. whether you like it or not all my friends ask my advice and its usually about right who's perfect (and i give all kinds of advice in my work)being out of the box helps other to see things that loved ones cannot.

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His ex gf hounds him a lot and now he's not sure about us! Should I just end this?

Q.   I have been with partner for 14 months, before I met him,HE had been in a on/off relationship for 6 years with (S)3mth on/3off they tried livin tog for 1 year it didnt work,he left.that was four years ago and he has had three other short term ...

A.   7 October 2006: Just to keep you up dated we are booking to go to jamica in november he feels terribly guilty that he has hurt me its my christmas treat. and we now seem closer thanks for all you advice ti realy does help when you dont know who to turn to.... (read in full...)

I can orgasm through masturbation but I don't think I can during sex - it doesn't feel the same!

Q.   How do you know that you're having an orgasm? When having sex it feels really great but i don't seem to reach a definite point in which i reach an actual climax. It gets really good and them i sort of peak and it feels like i've had an orgasm. I am ...

A.   4 October 2006: some women can orgasm through having sex some carnt, stimulate yourself whilst having sex see if that helps, use your fingers or even better use a vibrator, play tog learn what each other likes remember cou.ples who play tog stay tog and relax its ... (read in full...)

He asked why I was with him, I said because he makes me smile & happy, but that answer wasn't good enough!

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. We often joke with each other. However just the other day he asked me why was I with him? I replied because you make me smile and i'm happy around you. To him the answer I gave wasn't a good enough ...

A.   4 October 2006: The answer you gave was the truth and truth hurts but hey he makes you happy and you like to be around him so focus on whats good and love will come in time, it could be worse you could be unhappy and he could make you sad, God luck... (read in full...)

We've been broken up 3 years, she is engaged to someone else but gives me the impression she doesn't want him!!

Q.   I'm 38, she's 30. We were together 7 years. It was the dream relationship. Perfect. Except, I cheated. I didn't love this girl, but she was strong willed, and I gave in. It broke me and my ex up. We were engaged. I am devastated. But I am still se...

A.   4 October 2006: If you loved her so much ask yourself why did you cheat. a would you do it again, could she trust you. we always want what we carnt have. what if she decided that she didnt want you and went back to him. think about all the hurt you would both ... (read in full...)

The new guy excites me but im comfortable with my ex, which should I go for ??

Q.   Should I give my ex another chance of stick with "the new guy?" I broke up with my ex boyfriend in Jan after living together for 3 years. I started dating another guy a month later. I really like the other guy and its obvious he likes me, but my ...

A.   4 October 2006: What is the past leave in the past why did you split in the first place if it didnt work last time what makes you think it will this time and comfy is an old pair of slippers. ... (read in full...)

Is 18 and 29 too large an age gap?

Q.   What do you think of an 18 year old female (just turned 18) drinking and whatever else with a 29 year old male? I know she is of legal age for the dating part, but I still don't approve. I personally think an age gap is okay, when you are older, ...

A.   4 October 2006: Go for it love don't have an age limit.... (read in full...)

Holding hands?

Q.   Holding hands? Is holding hands juvenile? When should you hold hands? Do some people just not hold hands? Is it too "couple-y"? What do you do?...

A.   4 October 2006: If you want to hold hands do it my partner and i are in our late forties and we hold hands and kiss in public it is showing you have affection for your partner . Good luck... (read in full...)

His ex gf hounds him a lot and now he's not sure about us! Should I just end this?

Q.   I have been with partner for 14 months, before I met him,HE had been in a on/off relationship for 6 years with (S)3mth on/3off they tried livin tog for 1 year it didnt work,he left.that was four years ago and he has had three other short term ...

A.   4 October 2006: Thanks nish+ when you are in the box you know what he ans is for some one else, but not always for your self and if i gave him an ultimatum I no that he would end it he is so scared of losing another partner his wife died eight yrs ago.... (read in full...)

His ex gf hounds him a lot and now he's not sure about us! Should I just end this?

Q.   I have been with partner for 14 months, before I met him,HE had been in a on/off relationship for 6 years with (S)3mth on/3off they tried livin tog for 1 year it didnt work,he left.that was four years ago and he has had three other short term ...

A.   4 October 2006: After he dropped the bomb shell i thought that would be the end but now he his planning a holiday with me so who know how the male mind works... (read in full...)

Ive been getting on with my ex really well, was thinking of doing something nice for our anniversary!!??

Q.   Me and my ex's annivesary is coming up. We have been getting a long really well lately, talking a lot and hanging out together just me and her for the first time in many months. She is dating a guy, but she started dating him right after we broke ...

A.   3 October 2006: She is in a relationship with some one else enjoy her friend ship and look for someone else yourself if you can't talk to her to tell her how you feel about her how embarrassed would you both feel if she laughed at your anniversary gesture. ... (read in full...)

New relationships after long time out of the game... Is it worth it and do you have any tips for me?

Q.   I'm in my late 20's, I've been single for around 2 years following a 5-year relationshp. Meantime I had a couple of flings but nothing serious. I have pretty much been content being single. I have met a number of really smashing girls recently o...

A.   3 October 2006: Slow down whats the rush if she enjoys being with you, every other night will but more exciting as every night. buy her flowers, choc if she if fine with her figure and try and find out what perfume she wears without asking she will be well ... (read in full...)

Hes a bad kisser, but I really like him, how do I tell him ??

Q.   I've been going out with this guy for about a month now, and it started out fine. He's really nice, we get on well and have loads in common. But the problem is, he's a rubbish kisser. It's like he's trying to choke me with his tongue whilst ...

A.   3 October 2006: Talk to him. tell him nicely what a nice guy he his and ask him to try kissing in different ways you kiss him and ask him to do the same but say can you kiss me softer i find i enjoy softer kissing some times its better and if you both enjoy it ... (read in full...)

He didnt remember our anniversary, when I told him he just acted like normal, and then went bed earlier than usual!!!!

Q.   Do people normally make a special time of an anniversary? My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I deemed it to be a very special day and put in a lot of effort. He had completely forgotton. I was okay with him forgetting as he...

A.   3 October 2006: Men just have a habit of forgetting things, that us women feel are special. but if he has a stressful job and had a lot on he could well have forgotten about your anniversary It doesnt mean he loves you any less.... (read in full...)

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