Engaged to someone new, but still thinking of my Ex!
Q. Dear Cupids, I have been engaged to my boyfriend of 1 year for a month now. He is great, kind, loving, romantic, hard working etc. etc. of course with a few shortcomings that we all have. Recently though, I have become obsessed with thoughts o...
A. 6 July 2021: I think we all wonder what might've been and tend to gloss over the bad things in past relationships but remember why you broke up with him. You probably just like the attention, I get it everybody likes to feel wanted and sometimes our current ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend dotes on me so why am I so paranoid?
Q. I’m so paranoid about my boyfriend leaving me that I’ve been waiting on him hand and foot and being overly sexual with him. Before you all start calling him a pig who treats me like shit, he’s not. He’s the sweetest, kindest, most caring man ...
A. 5 July 2021: im glad you know it's all in your head, maybe seek therapy to undertand why you feel like you don't deserve love, a good partner and don't find yourself attractive. you do seem very insecure and are overcompensating in other areas. My advice would ... (read in full...)
Interested in Bi sexual anal sex
Q. Hi. I am I guess a bi. mwm 77 yo and just started have sex with other men a few years ago. I have not done anal yet. Wondering if it will hurt or damage my anal area. A couple of other men want to do anal and I have been hesitant. The kissing, and ...
A. 5 July 2021: "Wondering if it will hurt or damage my anal area" Er, well, it sort of depends, how careful you and your partner are. first of all, start small, lube is a must, don't try to use butter or olive oil or conditioner, whatever ppl are creative but its ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriends actions on the cell phone
Q. Hi and thank you!! Little background. I have been dating for about 2 years. At times it's been a roller coaster. My boyfriend has been caught on hook up sites, ( he denies it's his, apparently it's his friends) of course I don't buy it. ...
A. 30 June 2021: "Any thoughts?" Yes, he's activelly seeking out other women and will cheat on you given the oportunity. That's my take on what you're describing. I personally would never date someone I can't trust. I think it's a huge waste of time. ... (read in full...)
Has she outgrown our friendship?
Q. So I’m a little confused with how my friend has been towards me recently. We’ve been friends for 14 years and also colleagues. We were both each other’s bridesmaids at our weddings. Every year we exchange birthday and Christmas gifts but...
A. 30 June 2021: "I’ve kept in regular contact via text with her over this past year and her replies to my texts are getting shorter or ignored." I think you have to realize when you're talking to someone or just being answered, if the latter, I would ponder ... (read in full...)
He acts like a boyfriend but will not commit
Q. I've got myself into a situation and think I need to walk away but it hurts too much. I've fallen in love with this guy. Id class him as a mate. He's picked me up when I've been at rock bottom and we message all day every day. We were supposed to...
A. 30 June 2021: Typical fuckboy, he won't commit yet makes you believe you're special doing bf-gf stuff with you, but if he really liked you he would commit. He's probably doing the same routine with other girls too. " When I question it he says he doesn't know ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has become a different person
Q. My girfriend changed. Itz a completely different person than who I met 3 years ago. She is 27, I am 35. We are planning to get married very soon. Now I dont even know anymore. First I didnt really pay that much attention but now it's obvious....
A. 30 June 2021: "If you think she might be pregnant, no, she is not" LOL that never even crossed my mind. I think she's reevaluating this relationship. When is the wedding? is she getting cold feet? when I was 27 I had a bf who was 10 yrs older and eager to get ... (read in full...)
I'm fed up trying with people
Q. It’s been a tough year, I was heavily depressed during lockdown however things are getting better and I planned a camping trip in the mountains with a a group of friends. Our transport and other arrangements were booked, I spent a lot of time ...
A. 29 June 2021: It seems dangerous going alone, have you done this before? if yes I would go alone, if not consider your safety before money. If you're already paying for everything anyway, why don't you invite someone to go with you for free? when I was only ... (read in full...)
I got drunk and woke up naked in bed with my flatmate
Q. Last night I was drinking with my flatmates and they gave me beer - me: female 31 and them: males 38 and 39 and I just went through a breakup. So I woke up this morning in my flatmates bed naked. I don't find him attractive at all. Infact I was ...
A. 29 June 2021: DONt drink with these people, they took advantage of your drunken state and vulnerability and had sex with you. Go get tested for STDs. I wouldn't be too surprised if they tried to get you drunk on purpose, don't feel awkward at all, be upfront and ... (read in full...)
I am 15 years younger than my partner. Am I still not young enough for him?
Q. I am 53 and my partner is 68. He looks at younger women. I realize I too, am a younger woman to him but it does bother me. As good as I look for my age (I have been told I look at least 10 years younger), it still doesn't stop him. Today wh...
A. 29 June 2021: Unless he's very rich, younger women only see him as a nice granpa. Everyone can look, it's perfectly normal to admire beauty. You sound too insecure, I think you should work on yourself and stop worrying about other women. ... (read in full...)
Should I act on my feelings for my friend or continue dating the new girl and see what happens?
Q. I’ve got myself into a sticky situation and I don’t know what to do - please help! I have this female friend I have known since we were kids. I’ve always had a slight thing for her. She’s stunning, a genuinely nice person and an all around good ...
A. 29 June 2021: you already know what you should do, stop seeing the new girl, shes young not ready to settle down and you are. As to the old friend, you like each other and seem to have chemistry. Go for it. The whole " i dont want to lose our friendship" is a ... (read in full...)
It is normal to be horny during my period?
Q. Hi,i really feel so horny during my periods,is it normal...
A. 29 June 2021: yes, it is, for me, maybe except on the first day.... (read in full...)
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