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6 September 2010: Good evening, Dear Cupid community: In my experience, there comes a question that men often ask: What do women want? The reason I post this question, is because some of these questions I see here in the community stem from this. There seems to b...
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Is he flirting or am I being unreasonable?
Q. My boyfriend is wonderful to me and always does everything for me, however he just has one habit that really annoys me, he does seem to be too friendly with shop assistants and often engages in conversations with them while they are serving us. He ...
A. 31 August 2010: Hmmm. He seems he likes conversation. Does he say anything flirtatious to them? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not trust me and is rushing me into sex with him!
Q. Hi, I am 15 and I have a boyfriend who is 16. We have been togther for 5 months and he means the world to me and he always tells me that he cant even imagine living without me. We are pretty close and comfortable with each other; we have the kind of ...
A. 31 August 2010: Hey:
-In my experience, some people do not like to talk about their personal lives. You guys have been going out for five months. I think that if you guys date for a while longer, he will begin to open up. Perhaps you feel this way because you are ... (read in full...)
I need advice on getting over this guy!
Q. Hey everyone I don't really know what I'm asking exactly but I guess I just want advice on how to get over this guy who I've been thinking about non-stop. I've known him since we were both 5 as we went to the same primary school. I always go...
A. 26 August 2010: It seems your contact with this friend is diminished a little bit. I would suggest getting into more contact with him, and see where that goes? Explain to him that your friend had an incident. But, if you thought it was him, you would have contacted ... (read in full...)
If my stomach makes weird noises, could that mean I'm pregnant?
Q. im very stressed and worried i had sex with my bf on a saturday aug. 21 and i just got off my period on thurday aug. 19. he left it in me about 2 times and now my stomach has been making weird noises. is there any why that means i could be ...
A. 26 August 2010: I think your not. I think it takes a few weeks to a month. You could take a test to see if you are? Did he use a condom? Did you use protection? When did these noises start? How long do they keep up for? ... (read in full...)
If we were close why don't I remember them?
Q. I know my story sounds stupid but here it is I like my childhood friend who I haven't seen in 9 years and I don't remember him at all or anything that we did together and his mom and my mom say were close but but if we were so close why can't I ...
A. 26 August 2010: I would just try to keep on contacting him. Can you call him or see him? People can change in 9 years though. But, I would just try to contact him again. If he does not respond, then he is being rude. Or doesn't go on FB often. ... (read in full...)
Stop looking and it will happen???
Q. Good evening, Dear Cupid Community: My problem is that I'm too "friendly". Or it seems this way. Girls always look at me as a friend. I ask you this: Who you rather date somebody you helps you with you problems or talks to you often, and cares ab...
A. 24 August 2010: @ tennisstar88
-I'm in university. My last relationship ended because she was experimenting with my feelings. Constant comparisons, wanting me to be like "this". Never felt about me the same way I did for her. If I see a friend who is not feel... (read in full...)
16 and wanting to be pregnant need advice!
Q. alright, so im 16 years old, alot of people around me are all having babies or just getting pregnant,plus the fact i looooove babies,i also have a really horrible family life, and sometimes just need to know someone cares about me i know i have all ...
A. 24 August 2010: You need to grow up first. You don't have the adult mentality yet. You are still figuring out who you are. Just because people around you are having kids, does not mean that you have to. It's a full time job. Do you have a job? Does this boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Why did he do this to me when I love him so much?
Q. Me and my ex had bad fight cause i know he was seeing his female friend ,and he was denied it! while we was together! now we broke up! now i found out he is involved now Wit his female friend ,what should i do? he knew i love him and want to make ...
A. 24 August 2010: My advice: He wasn't worth it. 18-21, you have a lot of time. People at our age don't know what they want in a person, (except me it seems). But, there is a lot of people out there. If you have been dating in the past, then there has to be something ... (read in full...)
Would experimenting make me gay?
Q. I am a guy who has been completely straight all my life, but I have always had a fascination with well endowed men in porn. I have thought about trying out a "big" guy (just oral probably) to satisfy my curiosity. Would this make me gay, or is it ...
A. 24 August 2010: Are you sexually attracted to men? Then this kind of makes you bisexual, with a preference for women. However, people these days don't see homosexuals or bisexuals evenly, which makes me laugh because when did i wake and say "ok, I'm going to be ... (read in full...)
Am I making the right decision in this on/off relationship?
Q. I've been going out with this boy on and off for about a year. when i say on and off, i mean it. he dumped me about 4 times (i dumped him once because i thought he had been cheating on me, big mistake, he hadnt been). but then every time he would ...
A. 22 August 2010: Thank you. I would like to edit something from my past answer. I'm NOT saying "go break up with him now" Even though I said that, which is not what I meant. If he is the reason why your life is miserable, and it's not your fault (as in, you are ... (read in full...)
Will my feelings ruin the friendship?
Q. I'm 26, female and am in love with my best friend who is a 27 year old guy. I'm totally unsure what to do about it, I am worried if I tell him how I feel it will make things awkward and/or ruin the friendship. We have known each other for seven ...
A. 22 August 2010: Hmmm. This is a tough one. If you really like him, then I would tell him. Take a chance. I would rather know what the outcome is, over wondering what could have been. If worst comes to worst, you will be out of this wonder, and you will get over ... (read in full...)
Am I making the right decision in this on/off relationship?
Q. I've been going out with this boy on and off for about a year. when i say on and off, i mean it. he dumped me about 4 times (i dumped him once because i thought he had been cheating on me, big mistake, he hadnt been). but then every time he would ...
A. 22 August 2010: If the reasons why you guys keep breaking up is his fault, then cut him loose. Why does he keep breaking up with you? Four times? Come on. Something is up. Also, don't change yourself. Please do not conform to what he wants your personalty to be. If ... (read in full...)
Do you think I can get him back?
Q. We dated for 3 months and were together everyday i slept at his house almost everynight and anyone would have thought we were together for 3 years because we got along so well we also had plans to move off together sometime in the year. I started ...
A. 22 August 2010: First off, you're in the wrong. You guys have dated for 3 months? I'm wondering why you would go through his personal information. You guys are not married. You guys have been dating for three months. With the hitting on top of this, I don't know. ... (read in full...)
How can I meet mr right?
Q. hey, im so fed up latley i just cant meet the right boy. i know everyone says there is someone out there for them but how come i cant find mr right ?? every boy i go for just wants sex. im fed up of it and latley when i go out im stoping myself ...
A. 22 August 2010: Hello there:
I am a man, always wondering the same thing. 20 yearsold, one girlfriend... My advice, don't change. I look at it like this. If I change myself, then I'm not me, but rather what this person wants in me. My last girlfriend could not fath... (read in full...)
What now?
Q. ok so like this girl and told her so and she said she only liked me as a friend so i guess the question is what now? i mean i've "come to terms" with her decision i can't help so again, what now?...
A. 22 August 2010: I've been in this situation too often. You say your age is 13-15. You are really young. Rejection is apart of life, unfortunately. It's always the guy who has to ask the girl out (or very rare the girl asks the guy out) and the girl is always on the ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of being alone forever!
Q. I know im only 13, but im afraid of being alone forever. I havent had a father in my life since my parents got divorced when I was 6. I dont have any brothers, so I dont know whats it like to be around men. My mom says that all men are pigs and that ...
A. 10 August 2010: There are good people out there. However, I am always wondering if there is anybody good out there. I see them all the time, but they are taken. This proves the exist! Your only 13, you have oodles of time! ... (read in full...)
I am shy with a speech impediment, need suggestions on asking a girl out??
Q. I was wandering what are the best ways to ask girls out? I am 25 years old with a speech impediment. I have always been to shy to ask girls out due to my speech impediment. I decided it about time that I get over me being shy. So I was wanderi...
A. 31 July 2010: Hey!
What is wrong with how you talk? I look at it this way. it's a 50/50 chance. Either you will get accepted, or rejected. I wouldn't have notes on the side. I would just ask her out, face to face. If you get rejected, it's not the end of the worl... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and still a virgin. I'm struggling to cope! What can I do?
Q. Hey guys, I'd really appreciate some advice about this. Please bear with me; I've never spoken about this to anybody, and I need to get this off my chest. As a 20 year old virgin (a male virgin no less) I find myself feeling blue a lot. I have th...
A. 31 July 2010: Here's my view.
There is still romance in this fickle world. People like me, and a few posters here want it, or at least close to it as possible. I'm currently in university. I have had one relationship which lasted just under a year. We didn't have... (read in full...)
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