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An old flame has contact me... but I'm married now!

Q.   I have been married for 10 years and thought the relationship was pretty good. Suddenly a girl from 12 years in may past contacted me and I know she had tried a few times over the years. She truly was the love of my life but we parted due to ...

A.   20 May 2008: I was recently contacted by my exwife from 14 years ago. We didn't have kids together. We lost virginity to each other. Our relationship was passionate and I loved her with an intensity like I loved no one before. Our families broke us apart and ... (read in full...)

Is he behaving reasonably? Should I end it?

Q.   My boyfriend of one year has a son with a woman he was never married to. They split custody for the most part, but all according to her preference, she uses him mostly like a Baby sitter and this bothers him. He constantly complains about her and ...

A.   21 March 2008: Your boyfriends ex is very much like an exwife and not like an exgirlfriend. They have kids together and they still have a relationship together, whether or not they were legally married or not, they have a very deep bond that is not easy to break. ... (read in full...)

I think my daughters' masturbating is going to far.

Q.   I am a older guy. My wife died at a really young age. I have 2 daughters. One is 12 and the other is 14 One year ago I caught them masturbating in the bathroom. I told them it was ok and that they have the right to do that to themselves but d...

A.   21 March 2008: Masturbation is normal, but doing it with each other as sisters is not. However, my advice is to seek a medical type of person,like a nurse, or counselor, or kind old aunt type person or a woman in the family, an older woman, and have the woman ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend constantly gives me a hard time for my past, and it makes me miserable!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am writing with tears on my eyes 'cause devastated. I will try to make my story short. I met my bf while in college and while in college I acted a little crazy and mess around with a couple of guys. My bf and I were not together...

A.   21 March 2008: My advice is to end the relationship. You didn't mention how old you are, but it sounds like you are still fairly young and so he is also. He sounds like he is using his own insecurities and making it your problem. In the end, it's not about ... (read in full...)

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