I've had a life of violence and abuse and now my boyfriend cheated. I need help!!
Q. hya, i need all the help i can get i've had the hardest life with domestic violence n sexual abuse which left my emotions shattered. i am 16 and i had a long term bf which i truly loved he was the only this that has ever made me enjoy life...w...
A. 2 May 2008: I'm sorry that you are in situations such as these, but after reading this I really don't think that he is "right" for you... For one, someone who is right for you wouldn't cheat on you with their ex. And was he maybe drunk at the party or not in ... (read in full...)
I'm a bit shy, so how do I ask this girl to go to the movies with me?
Q. Hi, i need some advice, i really like this girl, how can i ask her out to go watch a movie? Also when i went out with my last girlfriend we were not very close, and it didn't help that i was a bit shy. If i was to go out with this girl, how can i be...
A. 29 April 2008: What is your relationship with her? Does she really know you? But anyways there's always the "haven't seen it yet, would you want to go with me?" or maybe the simple straight asking out. Like "Would you be interested in seeing a movie with me ... (read in full...)
My best friend and I have kissed, but we have not yet discussed about us? What shall I do?
Q. My problem is about my best friend who is a boy. Ever since we met, we always had a connection and there's always been something there. Recently, we have spent a lot of time together and one day, we kissed. It felt so right and from then I bega...
A. 26 April 2008: I say that you two should get together in a relationship. Sounds like it could work out and you are obviously having the feelings as you would if you were already his girlfriend. Good luck to the both of you :)... (read in full...)
He asked for my number in case he came up with an idea for our assignment...or was it something else?
Q. I really like this guy who I have a class with at university. Hes always voltunteering to help me with work and asked me if I wanted to work on an assignment with him. We exchanged email addresses so we could keep in contact. Then the other day we ...
A. 25 April 2008: Sounds to me like he might like you, but I could always be wrong. He did the can I have your number "just in case" technique which usually works if he was wanting your number for other reasons. I would probably say expect a call sometime, and not ... (read in full...)
He acts weird like if he doubts on me like he doesn't trust me that much should I be worried??
Q. Well...me and my boyfriend are going to complete our year of being together....sometimes he acts weird like if he doubts on me like he doesnt trust me that much should i be worried?? because my best friend started telling him all these things that ...
A. 25 April 2008: Hmm well lets see here... For one, that person you call a best friend is not a best friend if they do that. So describing them as your "best" friend might not be accurate. Also have you talked to him about these things? Has he talked to you? Just be ... (read in full...)
Should I try to revive my relation with the ex, in spite of my friends and family that may disagree?
Q. I have become close again with my ex-girlfriend. I love her to bits and always have and i think she wants to start something up again as we kissed the other day. She broke up with me 6 months ago because we kept arguing. We now have different frie...
A. 24 April 2008: This reminds me of a lesson from my Psychology class... I'm not saying that everyone would be right in saying that its a bad idea to go out with her again, but this attitude "Should i just go for it and tell anyone who thinks im a fool to shove it?" ... (read in full...)
Masturbation came up in one of our conversations, and he -FLIPPED OUT??
Q. this is basically a question for the men, although ladys your advice is Greatly appreciated as well. So ive had sexual relationships, with my current partner. Everything is going great, problem is that i dont get to see him to often because ...
A. 24 April 2008: I guess you can either:
A) Not talk to him about it
-or-
B) Talk to him about it and say your opinions on it which seem to be good and understanding
Not talking about it will be it so that this doesn't come up again obviously haha, and ... (read in full...)
Does what he wrote in his email means he likes me?
Q. I send the guy I have a crush on a picture of a girl who worked with him and me as a memory when he was here ( he left to another location some years ago) and he said it was a great picture of his two favorite ladies over here. Now, I can understand ...
A. 24 April 2008: Perhaps he is interested in you, yes. It sounds like he wouldn't be against the idea of beginning a relationship... It all depends really on how you feel about him as to whether or not this will go anywhere.
With him being more of a friend t... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that I really don't like him like that?
Q. There is this guy that has liked me since forever. I think like in freshman year and I graduated in 07.. So its been a while. I never really liked him but I kinda do. Its like I'm not physically attracted to him, but am to his personality. Well now ...
A. 24 April 2008: Speaking from a guy's point of view... In this situation I would much rather have the girl just tell me that she doesn't feel that way about me so that I know that I could stop chasing her around and hoping that something will eventually happen when ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to give up on me so how can I show him I'm not blowing him off?
Q. I'm going to prom with my friend's older brother. He's a sophomore at a comm. college nearby. She set us up and seems to want the best for both of us, if something more were to come out of the relationship. We went to the mall in a group to pick out...
A. 23 April 2008: How you can find time is not something I am sure of because I don't really know what kind of homework you get or anything of that sort. Just wait it out and I'm sure soon enough you will be able to hang out together. Just keep talking to him, and if ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a girl wants to be kissed?
Q. I feel very nervous about kissing and I am unable to read signs that a girl would like to be kissed. What are some signs that a girl would like to be kissed? Im shy and afraid of rejection....
A. 23 April 2008: I'm gonna do what I can to help out a fellow seemingly insecure guy haha. Don't worry dude I'm just like you, I know how you're feeling on this stuff. A lot of this depends on the kind of girl that you've got or are trying to get or whatever I dunno ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys seem phased at all about breaking up?
Q. why do guys when they break up with someone who they supposedly loved act like they arent even bothered. My bf broke up with me after 4 months together and i was truly hurt, we are both 14. Like he acted like nothing bothered him but yet I heard ...
A. 22 April 2008: I agree with all of the answers so far. I was once in a relationship that was decently long lasting and meaningful. I happened to be as described, not showing much emotion towards it cause the events that led up to the break up ruined any serious ... (read in full...)
I totally fell for him, but now he's back with his ex and we're on the down low! Will he return to me?
Q. I am 17 year old senior in high school, i have fallen for a 35 year old player...he has such good charisma, good looks, beautiful mesmerizing hazel eyes. I have been talking to him for about a month now. We have had sex about four times and it was ...
A. 22 April 2008: I say ditch him, he's using you for your young body. End it before you get any further into something that will more than likely have an unhappy ending... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go, he's out of prison and seeing another girl
Q. my boyfriend has just gotten out of prison march 1st, after serving 7 years. we met 14 months ago, while he was out on a furlow from work release. well, he decided to go to the strip club with his brothers and friends, where he met a girl who i ...
A. 22 April 2008: I say leave him. I don't really know if he's the type of person you would want to be involved with anyways... Like Collaroy said an ex con and a cheater who doesn't seem to heed what you say to him. Let him run off with her and go with your life to ... (read in full...)
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