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I love you is overrated

Q.   Well with my last few boyfriends, they have always said "I love you" in the first few days of us going out. It really bugged me, and I did kind of love them but it was more of a crush/fancying them at that stage. How can I stop guys I date from ...

A.   25 May 2009: Thank's for the replies, guys. I don't think it's to 'get into my pants' as this has happened since I was about 9 or 10 :P. I do feel it's because we are so young, and don't fully understand it. I mean some people my age do, I believe I should only ... (read in full...)

I'm not even 16 but he won't stop talking about "doing it"!

Q.   I've just finished year 11 at school. It was a great day everyone had fun and most the girls and some of the boys cried. Then there was the leavers party that night. It all went well till two of my mates left at 8 and I was left to hang out with...

A.   24 May 2009: He's taking advantage. If he really loves you he will wait until you're ready. I know it's hard but if he's pressuring you, he's not worth it and possibly dangerous, so dump him.... (read in full...)

Who is right here?

Q.   ok, here at home, there is a little dilemma going on between my mum and my 25 year old brother: my mum does not want my brother bringing his gf over into his bedroom because she says that them sleeping together is "sexually immoral." she says that ...

A.   24 May 2009: Well being honest, your mother is 'the boss' here as it's her house so it's understandable if she doesn't think he should be having sex in her house. Stopping him having sex at all isn't really her choice but your brother should consider her feel... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   23 May 2009: If we can't delete our posts then we should be at least able to edit them (also being checked again before the edited version can be published)... (read in full...)

Boyfriend falls for fake dating site profile, how to confront him?

Q.   Hi there I need some advice please. I met this guy on an internet dating site we have been together about 3 and a half months and it was going well until I realised he was still checking the site everyday, I was doing this as well but I deleted...

A.   23 May 2009: You could meet up with him as Sandra and say "Waiting for Sandra?" if you wanted to get even, although I wouldn't advise this. Confront him and ask why he's cyber-cheating on you.... (read in full...)

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

Q.   Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...

A.   23 May 2009: It'd be great to have a 'delete' button on your posts or anonymous posts. In the spur of the moment you forget that this is REALLY public. Since the computer knows you computer ID then surely it could be able to delete you anonymous posts (but ... (read in full...)

Teacher facys me what should I do?

Q.   Hi, my maths teacher fancys me, what should i do to stop him liking me or to make sure nothing at all he trys to do. Also i don't like him, i'm not the person who would start liking a teacher. Plz help if you can. Any help would be great. Thaks to ...

A.   19 May 2009: You're jumping to conclusions. Unless he's touching you on the arm, or saying innapropriate things. Your year seem to want some drama in your school, and are making accusations that can lead to serious consequences which would be unfair for him. If ... (read in full...)

I think my student fancies me

Q.   I am a high school teacher who's happily married and has a 2 year old son. I was doing some work after school when one of my Year 11 students came in. I'll admit for someone who is 16 she is attractive, but, I don't fancy her. The problem is that ...

A.   19 May 2009: She's wrong to have kissed you, but she's lovestruck most likely. Lots of girls fancy teachers, just make it obvious you're off limits. It may hurt her, but tell her it's innapropriate... (read in full...)

Student and teacher flirtations...

Q.   Hey! Well im slightly puzzled and annoyed at the fact that so many people on the site always say us girlies - omg! u will mkae him loose his job this that and the next thing, or that we are totally imaginin things that are there and there is no wa...

A.   19 May 2009: Yeah this subject is a complicated thing. But someone ALWAYS finds out. I know people who have been in relationships with teachers and they done get cleanly cut off like some normal relationships. They usually end in people finding out. Of course I ... (read in full...)

She asked what was in my pocket, but I had gotten an erection! So embarrassed!

Q.   Hi, I'm 14, about to be a freshman in high school, and I have a problem. I've been best friends with this girl for longer than I can remember. Last week, our school had the end-of-year Spring Fling (a dance). We went together as friends. When I went ...

A.   19 May 2009: Erections are normal. My ex and I made out and he got a hard on. I was really happy tbh because even though I wasn't going to go further at that moment, he made me feel appreciated lol... (read in full...)

My daughter has given me permission to sleep with her friend and I'm torn over what I should do!

Q.   I'm a single Dad with a 17 year old daughter. She has a friend that's 18. She's been coming around for about 5 or 6 yrs. I have a big house. She's had a room here for about 4 yrs and is here more than anywhere else.(No father around and Mom don't ...

A.   19 May 2009: Well just before you decide anything just think whether you love this girl or love the new affection. It's totally up to you and luckily legal. Your daughter obviously wants you happy. Just sit her down and ask a second time. If you peck her friend ... (read in full...)

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