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What should I do? Just ignore him for a while and hope he gets over whatever is bothering him?

Q.   Hi all Basically just curious as to your thoughts on this situation which happened to me the other day. I was at university and was standing with a group of friends after class. The guy that sometimes hangs out with us was standing behind us s...

A.   27 April 2011: who cares ? don't let it bother you. I'm a guy if that happened i wouldn't dwell on it the guy is obviously strange. He should build a bridge and just get over it.... (read in full...)

I too am genuinely insecure about him cheating now. How do I tell him I am so worried?

Q.   Hey there. There is this girl that has been constantly texting my boyfriend and I recently found out that she has been going over to his house by reading his text messages. I know that it's bad and all but he never tells me who it is. In the texts ...

A.   10 April 2011: meh say something to him. If he gives you crap go how would you like me hanging off a another guy ?... (read in full...)

I'm 24 and I feel lost careerwise, what do I do?

Q.   I always did well at school and had good grades. But I lack direction. I've been working at a warehouse for years and I absolutely hate it. I see other people my age in careers and I feel reallu jealous. I'm smart and I know I can do alot better. I...

A.   10 April 2011: Well no one else can do it for you have to get yourself into gear and just do it. Find something that you have a interest in and go with it. Maybe go to take and check out courses that you maybe interested in and what job prospects they bring who ... (read in full...)

Isn't love in your actions, not your words?

Q.   I am married, and very unhappy as late. My husband is a kind man, but is also very inconsiderate and rarely expells any energy on me. He works long hours, and spends his free time working on his car. Which is all fine, but lately I am feeling ver...

A.   28 March 2011: Yeah but you have to see where he is coming from Cars are awesome! Maybe he is scared to open up because he got burned in his last relationship. Maybe in the back of his mind his like i went all out on huge ring last time and it didn't help. Maybe ... (read in full...)

Why have we started having "dirty sex"?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together 2 and 1/2 years now and things are great but we find ourselves doing more and more "dirty" sex acts. So much so that "ordinary" sex just doesn't happen anymore. I'm not worried about my physical health but if ...

A.   22 March 2011: Because normal sex can get monotonous same positions this that. Whereas dirty sex can be spontaneous and wild,hard, fast and rough. But you still love jam slow loving to. Dirty sex is mad don't fight it or be ashamed. Enjoy.... (read in full...)

Why when I orgasm does it feel like I have to pee?

Q.   Sorry this is kind of embarrassing but I just need to know. When my husband does oral intercourse on me on the clitorus my legs start to shake and I tense up and I think I cum but then while he's still doing it I feel like peeing? And I read some ...

A.   22 March 2011: Nah thats means your about to squirt just relax and let it go my ex was like that she used to explode just make sure you have a towel handy. Enjoy!... (read in full...)

I'm tired of looking over my shoulder wondering what my girlfriend is doing!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together almost a year. I love her to absolute bits, but we have had some problems in the oast after she cheated on me. We broke up for a while, but eventually got back together after she said she would do everything ...

A.   22 March 2011: Screw the headaches man get rid of her you'll be sad at the start but relived in the long run. Your gut is telling you something its generally right and you have a right to be worried look at her track record. Move on brother don't waste anymore ... (read in full...)

Why do people stay in loveless marriages?

Q.   Why do people stay in a love-less marriage? When you know the other person doesn't love you anymore, why do you stay in that relationship? Is it because you think you can win them over? I think once the love is gone, it's gone. They might still ha...

A.   22 March 2011: simple. There scared of being alone. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is cheating on me again. But I love him so much and he said he loves me too!

Q.   okay here is the situation, my boyfriend and i are almost 3 weeks now. and of course, i don't have a full trust on him. so i created a fake account on some social network site and started messaging him. using this fake account, i told him if he is ...

A.   21 March 2011: Lol how can you be attracted to someone so gullible and stupid to be played 2 weeks in a row by you he must be a fool. So he isn't very bright and willing to meet up with random people behind your back ? whats there to love is he loaded seriously ... (read in full...)

He told me to leave him alone but I still want him! What should I do now?

Q.   Hi there is this guy who i really like and the problem is that I'm in love with him and i haven't seen him in almost 2 months and he told me 2 leave him alone and i cant..... ...

A.   21 March 2011: Whats the back story to this how do you know him etc etc or your just a stalker out of the blue ?... (read in full...)

I tried to talk to him about our problems but now he is ignoring me, how should I handle this?

Q.   Last week me and my boyfriend of over a year had plans to hang out, just like we usually do but he ended up going out with his friends instead and didn’t contact me to let me know, which is understandable I guess because he doesn’t have a phone. ...

A.   21 March 2011: Seriously this guy is teenager of 21st century and doesn't have a mobile that's strange. Anyways if keeps braking plans all the time and wants to go party with the boys sounds like he isn't ready for a serious relationship. Ive had a relationship ... (read in full...)

Is he trying to play some kind of game?

Q.   So almost 2 months ago i met this guy, he got my number and we have texted everyday since. He asked me out once, then i asked him out(didnt happen because of floods) then he asked me out and we went out and had a good time. About a week and a half ...

A.   21 March 2011: Hey not sure if he is playing a game but sounds like he is losing interest or is not trying hard enough to meet up with you. I don't understand whats with all the texting though once you've met someone don't you feel comfortable enough to talk to ... (read in full...)

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