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Why is it more acceptable for women to use sex toys than it is for men?

Q.   just a tought. why is it totally acceptable for girls the use of vibrators / stimulators and when it comes to males, the use of them makes you be seen as a perv, weirdo, looser... etc, etc... im in a ldr and we see each other every 3 months. My gf ...

A.   29 December 2013: Men are able to use their hands effectively so why do they need toys, it's wrong to make that assumption, but many people see it this way. Also, woman tend to get less pleasure than men while having sex with other people so self pleasure gets the ... (read in full...)

I work with my ex-boyfriend's new fiancée and hearing about their perfect life together is painful for me

Q.   Me and my teenage sweetheart were together for 5 years when he broke up with me by text. Although we have been apart 2 years i really miss him. To make matters worse i work with his new girlfriend on a daily basis and he has just asked her to marry...

A.   29 December 2013: Trust me, no relationship will ever be perfect.Although she's portrays she's so happy, which she may be, it's not perfect.I think the real problem is that you're not in the best relationship possible, you're not madly in love and as a result your ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid that when my girlfriend does overcome her abusive ex she'll be attracted to his type again

Q.   We've been together a year now and in our mid-twenties. She was raised very strict and about 8 months before I met her ended a 2 year relationship with your typical "bad boy" who treated her horribly, pretty much abuse from what I know. I ment...

A.   24 December 2013: Hi, It seems like you're trying your best, but i don't think that's going to work. Unfortunately that relationship is not going to progress well because she's still facing her own demons. She needs to go to therapy. Maybe after she gets help from... (read in full...)

Is he just in this for the sex?

Q.   Hey guys. So I met this guy Mark a while ago via my next door neighbor Andrea (we were hanging out once and she invited him). The night I met him we were really into each other and I ended up going home with him. My neighbor made him promise ...

A.   24 December 2013: Hey, Unfortunately, the first mistake (sleeping with him on the first outing) has caused this relationship to fail from the get go. He will never truly commit to you, unless you gain your power back. The sex you give him is too good for him to take ... (read in full...)

She kept looking, but didn't return my smile. Was she was interested and should I try to find her again?

Q.   I have noticed this very good looking girl on the underground a few times. So the last time I managed to sit almost opposite her on a full train. She definitely kept looking at me every few minutes, looking away a few seconds after I caught her g...

A.   24 December 2013: I hate to say this, but I HATE BEING APPROACHED in the train. Unfortunately you guys seeing each other has happened one to many times and she may start to think you're stalking her! As for the guys next to her, well that comment made my day. Alth... (read in full...)

I don't want to be alone anymore.

Q.   If I'm trying to find my first g/f, or in general first date, etc... What places should I go, library, book store, when I'm at the park on a walk? I'm feeling out of options here, I just don't really want to be alone anymore. If anyone has anything ...

A.   24 December 2013: Where do YOU like to go? Don't try and change yourself for anyone because eventually when you do find a girl it helps to have mutual interests. Friendship is key, don't bore her because there's nothing to talk about. Women like confident guys, but ... (read in full...)

His dislike of me makes me uncomfortable with my group of friends.

Q.   my friendship group has recentally broken down with lots of different people involved in individual fights. during this time i have been dealing with issues with work and my ex so i have spent that much time around it all. however a few weeks ago, ...

A.   24 December 2013: hey, Don't sweat the small stuff, I've been there. He seems very immature and rude, which is not necessary. I hate to say this because it will take a lot of courage, but, go and speak to him alone and approach him about why he doesn't like you. Ask ... (read in full...)

I've had a horrible year and he is making it worse!

Q.   My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He told me that he wanted to see me today at first. He was supposed to see me yesterday. He didn't send me a message yesterday though. He wrote to me today and told me that he had a cold yesterday, and he said he ...

A.   23 December 2013: I hate to say this, but you NEED to break up with him unless you're prepared for the emotional roller coaster that will follow. Mental illness is hard and if you're not emotional ready for that journey, well then you need to get off. GET OUT OF THE ... (read in full...)

He keeps telling me he is going to break up with me!

Q.   My boyfriend kissed me when he was trying to break up with me yesterday. I found that to be confusing in itself. Then 15 minutes later he changed his mind and was all over me and said he wants to be with me and wants me to be his girlfriend!!! ...

A.   23 December 2013: It is obvious he now has commitment issues. Why don't you break up with him? It seems that he's not into you. It sounds like he has serious problems of his own and is now trying to play games with you. If you break up with him, and mean it, it will ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's boss was very flirty with me.

Q.   Ok, awkward situation! Went to my partners christmas party Saturday night and i'd never met any of his colleagues or managers before. When we got in I went to check my coat whilst he went to check the table plan. As I got there, there was a long...

A.   23 December 2013: Be honest with your partner. The boss sounds like a loser that can't take no for an answer. It's cute that he thinks you're beautiful, but he should have just let the whole thing go the moment you mentioned your boyfriend. You absolutely did the ... (read in full...)

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