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Braces! rubberbands! I feel so ugly. All my photos next year will be ruined. And I'm a dancer. What can I do to get through this?

Q.   I'm 16 years old, and in my 3rd year of high school. I recently just got braces on, not to straighten my teeth (they were already straight), but, to fix my bite. I have to wear rubberbands and all of that. I can't stand to even look at myself anym...

A.   19 November 2011: I have had braces for just over a year now, had rubber bands for a month and it's shocking the amount of people who don't even notice untill I mention them. I think this is because my teeth don't show much when I talk and I just don't make a big ... (read in full...)

Do you have to be pretty to be loved?

Q.   I'm only 16 but i've never had a boyfriend and i've only ever kissed guys that have been drunk at parties. Im really unconfident about myself, particuarly my appearance, and i just feel so unwanted. Do I have to be pretty to be loved?...

A.   22 August 2011: The person who loves you will think you're pretty... Just wait; they'll find you.... (read in full...)

How do I feel better about myself?

Q.   Hi, Im never satisfied with my looks, and feel ugly all the time. Some people say im pretty but I never believe them. Im not very popular or outgoing, im very shy. How do I feel better about myself?...

A.   30 July 2011: Hey, it's okay to have low self esteem. Even if you don't have a disability, it doesn't mean you don't have the right to feel bad about your appearance. If people say that you're pretty, please try and believe them. You don't have to be outg... (read in full...)

I want to lose weight but not become too thin. Any advice?

Q.   Sooo this isn't really a relationship question, but I just need some advice. I'm 5'3, I use to weigh 5 stone. I went to hospital and put on 4 stone, the medication I was on had a side affect of weight gain. Since then I've lost 1 stone; so I now ...

A.   25 June 2011: Hey. I want to make it very clear that I do not have an eating disorder! I love the way my body looks, I just want to be healthy. Hearing about the BMI is alittle shocking, I won't try and loose too much weight. I probably need to work on toning ... (read in full...)

I want to lose weight but not become too thin. Any advice?

Q.   Sooo this isn't really a relationship question, but I just need some advice. I'm 5'3, I use to weigh 5 stone. I went to hospital and put on 4 stone, the medication I was on had a side affect of weight gain. Since then I've lost 1 stone; so I now ...

A.   25 June 2011: Hi thanks for your help. I didn't have an eating disorder, that wasn't why I was in hospital. I don't think I have an eating disorder now. It's not that I think I'm fat or anything.... (read in full...)

I keep getting it wrong with women!

Q.   I can't get in the game, I don't understand how to take the right approach with all this dating game, yes there are so many beautiful women that I can have and they are also available around where I live,but my problem is I can't approach them ...

A.   24 June 2011: I'd suggest you don't think think of dating as a game. Girls don't usually enjoy getting played. You do not need to be cocky! I personally find it a turn off. Straight to the point is a good approach, but it depends how you do it. If you don't know ... (read in full...)

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