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I'm Jessi, I am going to school to become a child psychologist. I figure I can practice my training on here and see what kind of responses I get. Please feel free to give me honest opinions.

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2 weeks into my relationship and I've kissed another guy. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

Q.   Two weeks into the relationship and i've already kissed another guy whilst drunk... I feel awful I know how bad this sounds I really do. I went over my alcohol limit and stupidly kissed some random guy...It's tearin' me up I know it's only two we...

A.   18 May 2009: well if it is tearing you up then just tell him. It is early enough now that if it ends it wont be as hard. If you wait though and something does come of the relationship and you tell him then it might just mean major heartbreak for you both.... (read in full...)

Sex or compassion..which one?

Q.   i am in love with two men. the one pleases me like you wolud not believe in the bedroom. our souls connect an we make love like no other. the second man gives me everything in a healthy relationship needed! (attention, respect, makes me laugh, ...

A.   18 May 2009: Personal question...have you had sex with the second? If so was he just not up there or what? I think you would be better off with number two. He seems like the better bet and not such a flake. The first seems like the kinda guy that wants what he ... (read in full...)

Move with parents? Or stay with my guy?

Q.   Hello I have a problem that I need help with. My parents are moving to Alberta very soon (end of June) right after I graduate from highschool, and heres my problem 7 months ago I finally started dating someone who I've had a crush on since I ...

A.   18 May 2009: ah i see. Well I still stick with what i said, i think it would be easier all the way around! Best of luck sweetie!... (read in full...)

How can I gain my pride and keep my cool in front of her?

Q.   pls read it to the end i have to quistions to answer there is this girl who i like very very very much and i know that she likes me becasue we always flirt and keep gazing at each other often but she is playing hard to get and she is very good in ...

A.   18 May 2009: haha no problem. Hope I was some help! Any more questions be sure to let me know! Best of luck!... (read in full...)

Best friend cheated with my b/f and now I think she might be trying again to get him

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out again and things have been really great. But in the past, him and one of my best friends had gotten together behind my back for a month. It has been almost a year now and i have forgiven both of them and have ...

A.   17 May 2009: I would have beat bitches ass. haha but then again I have a little bit of a temper. Next on the list would be to just tell her strait, leave my boyfriend and I the fuck alone. With chicks like her you can't be nice sweetie and it sounds to me like ... (read in full...)

What to do when your very first moment occurs?

Q.   hi :D I was just wondering what to do when your very first "special moment" comes. My friend had one the other day but she said she completely messed it up. There's a guy I really like, who also likes me and so basically I was wondering what to ...

A.   17 May 2009: kiss him back. duh.. Look at him make the eye contact and when he starts to move in just let it happen.. Always let the guy lead too! They like that in the beginning. Just don't be too nervous and have fun. and wait what do you mean by special ... (read in full...)

Do I miss my ex? Or just having female companionship?

Q.   Ok, I've only ever had one girl I have ever loved in my entire life and our relationship didn't end to well. She dated on me two years ago and I've still yet to find the right girl for me. I miss her but do you think it's more a fact of missing her ...

A.   17 May 2009: If i were you i would call some of my buds, go out, have some fun. you just need to realize you can have a life without always depending on her to provide it. That is a huge mistake in relationships, they get so dependent on that other person that ... (read in full...)

Is this normal for a period?

Q.   Hi.I had my last period,i think,about 3 weeks ago.It started on the 26th of April,and finished exactly a week later,and yesterday,i got the signs of another one starting.I usually get a brown discharge for a day or two before my period starts,then ...

A.   17 May 2009: yea sweetie, that sounds pretty normal. I gave up on trying to keep track of mine because there are soo many things that can throw it off I find it a waste of time. Have you been stressed lately? The reason I ask is that mine sometimes comes twice a ... (read in full...)

Move with parents? Or stay with my guy?

Q.   Hello I have a problem that I need help with. My parents are moving to Alberta very soon (end of June) right after I graduate from highschool, and heres my problem 7 months ago I finally started dating someone who I've had a crush on since I ...

A.   17 May 2009: I would go with my parent's because if you go with them then you don't have to pay to get there. Then after your there you and your boy can save all your pennies together to get him there. It will be cheaper to get one person there then two and plus ... (read in full...)

Do I let things run their course and develop naturally?

Q.   I work with a guy and we have been friends for a couple of years. Over the past few months we have become closer. We are both single. We've started flirting more, when we are close together we brush up against each other. When we talk there is a ...

A.   17 May 2009: That is your choice. If you are that certain the best thing to do is go for the kill and just ask him what he considers your relationship to be. That is an easy way to ask because in all honesty he is probably wondering what it is too..... (read in full...)

Should I ask him to come back to me?

Q.   im 14 i had a boyfriend he was 15 we broke up 3 months ago and two weeks ago he calle me and asked if i wanted to go with him to a disco... offcourse i sai yes because i love him... and in the disco he star dancing with me ten he huge me and woul...

A.   17 May 2009: if i were you i would tell him how you feel, but you also need to talk to him about why he did what he did. Chances are if he is lying and cheating this early in his life then he will continue to do it. Old habits die hard. He did it and if you take ... (read in full...)

How can I gain my pride and keep my cool in front of her?

Q.   pls read it to the end i have to quistions to answer there is this girl who i like very very very much and i know that she likes me becasue we always flirt and keep gazing at each other often but she is playing hard to get and she is very good in ...

A.   17 May 2009: I think if you really like her then you should go for it. Just don't be to Love struck about it. Ask her to do something with you and see how she replies. If you gave her the cold shoulder and she got pissed my guess would be she feels something for ... (read in full...)

How can I gain my pride and keep my cool in front of her?

Q.   pls read it to the end i have to quistions to answer there is this girl who i like very very very much and i know that she likes me becasue we always flirt and keep gazing at each other often but she is playing hard to get and she is very good in ...

A.   17 May 2009: sure sign she likes you bub...why don't you just ask her out and see what she says?? not ask her to be your gf or w/e just ask her to go to a movie sometime or something like that..... (read in full...)

I don't know how to act around women but my friends do!

Q.   I don't know how to act around women. When I go to a club, I see my friends casually walk past girls in clubs, rub up against them/touch them up a little and then carry on walking as if nothing happened. Other times it'll happen when they're ...

A.   15 May 2009: well you either need to come out of your shell or find a new way to meet girls. Just because you dance with a girl all night doesn't mean you can't get there number and go out to coffee later. You don't to have to be a sleeze and grab on every girl ... (read in full...)

Skipped almost two periods I pregnant?

Q.   Okey i really need help im 13 nearly 14 and i think im pregnant. the last couple of times me and my boyfirnd had sex we did not use protection as he pulled out before he came so i thought it would be okey but now im realy worried because i have ski...

A.   15 May 2009: You shouldn't have been having sex if you were that acknowledgeable on the subject. you are only 13?? Come on sweetie, there is plenty of time for all that stuff. Go get a test and if it's positive then your going to have to tell your mother. Sorry ... (read in full...)

B/f needs texts or calls me back!

Q.   My bf doesnt always reply to my messages or phone calls. This really frustrates and upsets me, and it also makes me worried. We have a long distance r/ship- this makes it even harder to deal with this. Last time he visited me, he was all over m...

A.   15 May 2009: if you really care about him then talk to him. voice your concerns. If it helps send him a message or jot down the things that are bothering you before you call. Just be strait up with him and see what he has to say.... (read in full...)

How can I gain my pride and keep my cool in front of her?

Q.   pls read it to the end i have to quistions to answer there is this girl who i like very very very much and i know that she likes me becasue we always flirt and keep gazing at each other often but she is playing hard to get and she is very good in ...

A.   15 May 2009: hell if she insists on playing the game then play it back. ignore her until she initiates contact. while your talking to other girls glance over at her just enough so she meets your eyes and then turn back. Don't look hopeless. Girls aren't will ... (read in full...)

If a person never experienced true heartache can they know what true love is?

Q.   If a person never experienced true heartache, like a broken heart, can they know what true love is? To me, they have nothing to compare it to, so in my eyes one cant possibily know what love is until they experience how much hurt love can bring ...

A.   15 May 2009: nope I completely agree. The guy i'm with now has never loved a girl before me and that makes me extremely nervous. He keeps proposing to me and I keep turning him down because of the fact i'm his first love. You know how the whole first love thing ... (read in full...)

Do you think they think I'm creepy?

Q.   Hi guys, so i have a playstation 3 and on my ps3 i have a 'friends' list. i currently have a few girls on this 'friends' list and my problem is that they ignore me unless i text them and ask them how they are doing and things like that. it's alw...

A.   15 May 2009: nah..i text people all the time and get text's from guys all the time that i never text first. I enjoy getting those text's. maybe if it bothers you so badly you should mention in the convo, "hey why don't you ever text me?" see what they ... (read in full...)

Falling in love with a second cousin

Q.   I'm 21 years old and I fell in love with my second cousin. His father and my mother are cousins. We didn't grow up together. I remember him from when I was 5 or 6 but almost two years ago we met again. We both thought it was weird at first but then ...

A.   15 May 2009: well it wasn't my second cousin but I was told that I either chose to live with my boyfriend and no longer consider my self apart of my family or to stay and never talk to him again. It was very hard to do but I chose him and realized that I had a ... (read in full...)

Moved in with b/f and now am lonely and depressed.

Q.   so me and my boyfriend started out great he was so sweet and we got along great. we moved in together 2 months ago and it wasn't just down the road its 3 hours away from my friends and family.. so I haven't been able to find a job yet and I just sit ...

A.   15 May 2009: talk to him and consider maybe getting a place closer to home or maybe choosing a time to go spend a few days at home during the week when he works. That way you can go and have fun and socialize and not be stuck in isolation. i move around a lot ... (read in full...)

My dad makes me feel ugly

Q.   So i have albinism. I can not tan at all. One day about maybe two years ago i had this two piece bathingsuit and my dad got wicked mad. He said that i looked ugly in it because it showed to much whtie. That made me feel horrible. and i didn't lis...

A.   15 May 2009: babe i can't tan either but i'm proud of it. If someone makes a comment about it i just laugh it off. I have accepted the fact that I can't. You just need to be proud of who you are and ignore negative remarks. At least when you get older you wont ... (read in full...)

I'm embarrassed about the size of my breasts

Q.   Hi, im 14 years old and have just started high school. I look mature for my age so people usually don't believe me that im 14. I have really big boobs im a DD 36 even though i dont wear revealing clothes guys still notice them and comment which ma...

A.   19 March 2009: Be proud of them..they are part of you sweetie and nothing to be ashamed of!!! ... (read in full...)

He thinks I'm only out to scam him!!!

Q.   Let's say you were in a relationship where your partner had an issue with trust. To the point were they actually believed that you were responsible for something that went missing. 4 years have gone by and I swear he still thinks everything is just ...

A.   19 March 2009: sounds like you aren't happy and if he is that edgy and psyco about his trust issues that isn't healthy. I would recommend either talking to him about it or getting out now.... (read in full...)

Good or bad? I want to have sex!

Q.   My gf is 15 and im 14..we've known eachother for a long time and have been going out for over a year, so we have great chemistry, and we simply love eachother.... so lately we've been tlking about having sex for the first time...we want to ...

A.   19 March 2009: I believe you guys are too young. I lost mine at 13 and I still to this day regret it. You guys are still kids I know you hate to hear that but it's true. Just hold on a bit because you have to consider if something goes wrong, if the rubber breaks ... (read in full...)

Even although he tried to choke me to death I'm wondering... should I take him back?

Q.   Recently my boyfriend was charged with assault and uttering death threats. Both charges I was the victim. He choked me and when I told him I couldn't breathe he said "thats what I'm trying to do". Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front ...

A.   19 March 2009: no way in hell...that is bullshit and you don't deserve that. If he does it once chances are he is going to do it again. plus if you take him back he is going to believe if he does it again you will continue to take him back and then he has the ... (read in full...)

Troubles in the bedroom...

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving ...

A.   18 March 2009: Why would she care about you masturbating? and why would you put up with her not trusting you?? Set her straight and tell her if she loved you she would have a little more faith in you and your word.... (read in full...)

Confused... should I break it off?

Q.   SHOULD I BREAK IT OFF? This girl and myself have been seeing each other now for 7 months on and off. She is an old flame, we were boyfriend and girlfriend 2 years ago and got back in contact with each other a year ago. Seeing each other everyday, ...

A.   18 March 2009: wow...honey your girl has some major issues. It sounds to me like she is very insecure and you are taking the fall for it. If i were you I would call it off because you deserve someone that not only loves you but loves themselves and is not ashamed ... (read in full...)

If we break up he's worried about how it will affect his friendship with my brother.

Q.   I have liked my brother's best friend for 5 years I just recently found out he likes me too. We have become friends with benefits but I want it to be more. But he is afraid to finalize our relationship because he's worried about if we break up what ...

A.   18 March 2009: if he is really that worried just talk to your brother about it. tell him whats going on and see if he minds. i think that is just about the easiest way to go about it.... (read in full...)

How on earth will I be able to fit a penis in there???

Q.   It's a bit of an embarrassing question really, I just don't know who else I could ask... well I frequently masturbate (clitoral stimulation, sounds a bit clinical) and bring myself to an orgasm... but, whenever I try to actually get something inside ...

A.   18 March 2009: hun when the time comes trust me the dick is able to fit. If you really want to fit more start with fingers. Work your way up. it is a good thing to have a tight puss (read in full...)

My fault she's pregnant...

Q.   I recently found out my bf of 1 year has gotten another girl pregnant while seeing me. The child is 2 months old, I do not know what to do, he said that he was drunk. My bf is 15 and I am 14. This is my fault, I said that I wouldn't have sex with...

A.   18 March 2009: Babygirl... This is not your fault in any way!!! You are way to young for sex and so is he!! I respect you saying no! He is the scum that went out and did this, not you! You didn't fuck the chick without using a condom and you didn't force her to l... (read in full...)

Six months pregnant due to a one night stand

Q.   I recetntly found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant due to a one night stand. I have no idea how to break the news to everyone, especially the Daddy to be and my parents. I'm terrified because I have no idea how they will handle the news, my parents ...

A.   18 March 2009: Just be straight babe... in this situation it's truly hard to not get a negative response. You have to be strong and take responsibility for your actions. If you do end up in it alone human resource offices help out alot. I would tell the daddy to ... (read in full...)

We went from friends with benefits to boyfriend/girlfriend I guess...

Q.   I had a one night stand with this guy. I'd never had casual sex before and I thought that's all it would be, but we developed into fuck buddies, then friends with benefits and the more I see him, the more I'm becoming emotionally attached. We now ...

A.   18 March 2009: Darling... After having a sexual relationship it is extremely hard for men to realize that you need more than what you had. You have to fight for what you want. You can't change him but you may be able to urge him in the direction you want him to t... (read in full...)

Drifting apart & I don't want to!

Q.   so ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. hes so special to me and he means soo much to me. were so good togeather and we have soo much fun when were in eachothers company. i do really love him but over the past 2weeks he and i have had alot ...

A.   17 March 2009: Sometimes you can't help drifting apart. Why don't you talk to him about it and see how things go. Voice your concerns and see where it goes from there. If you guys do drift though there is nothing you can do about it. sorry to tell you sweetie... (read in full...)

Lumps on my neck & tattoo a few months ago..related?

Q.   Hello there, Recently I have been noticing little lumps on my neck around the sides, just below my ear and back of nect etc. I've noticed them for about 2 wks now and was getting a bit concerned. Today a big lump come up on my neck and it w...

A.   17 March 2009: Go see a doctor... It sounds to me like you have stff(staff) infection. Its very common and can kill ya babe so definetly get it checked. My mother was in the hospital for some time with it. GET IT CHECKED!!!... (read in full...)

Is she pregnant? Cum on my finger was inside her

Q. i was fingering my girl and she was giving me a handjob..i cummed on her stomach..i touched the cum with one of my fingers..and then after that..i toook lots of tissues and cleaned it up..i think this took like 2-3 minutes..and after sme ...

A.   17 March 2009: Make it a test..... (read in full...)

After a year of sex, I've never had an do I tell my b/f?

Q.   I think all of us girls (and most of the guys out there) are perfectly aware that it is not only normal but common for a woman to only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. But, I think my boyfriend doesn't know that this is the case. Because I am lou...

A.   17 March 2009: Babe use a razor...or hell maybe he likes it hairy...You just have to ask...Be honest with him... As for the other While you guys are in bed be a tease. Be demanding. Guys get turned on by a girl that knows what she wants. If that doesn't work ther... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has become really boring!

Q.   hello my boyfriend is getting really boring and i dont what is wrong with him . we used to be all happy and he always wanted to go out and take me places but now all he wants to do is sit in what shall i do xxx thxz love stacie...

A.   17 March 2009: I have the same problem!!! It seems like as soon as him and I started talking about getting married he just quit caring. He has let himself go and never wants to do anything but fool around. I know exactly how you feel, I would say to talk to him a... (read in full...)

IS he a player like my friends say?

Q.   In January I started a new job and fell in love with it immediately. A couple of weeks into the job I was introduced to a Polish man who normally worked night shifts and he was very friendly if not a little flirty and sleazy, but I just shrugged it ...

A.   17 March 2009: Its never wise to date a co-worker but If he seems really genuine then go out with him a few times and see how it goes. Get to know him better and learn about him. You have to use your best judgment never listen to other peoples he said she said ... (read in full...)

I'm wondering what kind of person my boyfriend is.

Q.   I've been seeing this man for the past 4 months. He's a professional, intelligent, funny and very caring. It was supposed to be a casual meeting which turned into a one night stand which turned into a relationship. i met him through the inte...

A.   17 March 2009: Sounds to me that he has some trust issues and you are going to end up suffering in the end. I'm not sure what to tell you but I can't see this ending good sweetheart.... (read in full...)

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