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Oh my god over a year on since i first joined this site (where has the time gone) and i'm still loving it.
I got alot of help from all of the fantastic aunts and uncles when i needed it most, it was great getting everyone else's views on my situation at the time and it's great to see that those same people are still here doing the same fantastic job.
Due to what i have been through and the advise i have recieved off of here i am a much stronger person now and have so much more confidence in myself.
I am turning thirty this year i have a wonderful husband, yeah we have had our problems but thats life, and two fantastic children and i really believe my life is starting now and i cant wait for the rest of it.
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Is it okay to let him play with my breasts even although I'm breast feeding?
Q. bit of a silly question but 2 embarrassed 2 ask anyone, recently had a baby 6 weeks ago was getting intimate with my fella the other nite, 1st time since the baby was born he always enjoyed playing with my breasts but as im breast feeding i dont ...
A. 3 June 2007: Its absolutley fine to let him play with your breasts it will not do you any harm or affect the milk, as long as you are comfortable with it just enjoy it babe.
Take care.xx.... (read in full...)
If we had a baby would the baby have the cockney accent also?
Q. Just an equiry really as i'm confused. My other half is a cockney. If we had a baby would the baby have the cockney accent also? Any advice would be great and very soon. Thanks...
A. 3 June 2007: Please anyone correct me if i'm wrong but generally you pick up the accent of the place you are brought up in as i know people that are swedish and have children that were born and brought up in england and speak perfect english.
Hope this help... (read in full...)
What are the chances do you think of us getting back together?
Q. My boyfriend asked me for some space three months ago, but stupid me kept phoning and texting telling him how much I loved and cared for him. A week later he dumped me and said he'd met someone else and changed his cell number. I know he had ...
A. 3 June 2007: Plaesedo not get your hopes up, which i know myself through past experience is going to be very hard not to do especially after the phone call you have just had, i know it will be hard but you have made it clear to him how you feel now i would just ... (read in full...)
I dunno what is wrong with me but I haven't felt sociable and just want to be quiet and have time alone.
Q. About a week ago It was my girlfriends birthday and I had a really happy time and had a lot of fun. Since then I dunno what is wrong with me but I haven't felt sociable and just want to be quiet and have time alone. I've worked this weekend quite ...
A. 3 June 2007: If you are that concerned about how you are feeling i would suggest booking an appointment with your doctor and discussing with them, there is no shame in it and they might be able to come up with a logical answer for it.
Take care .xx.... (read in full...)
When I shave my legs it hurts so bad because I have very sensitive skin. Anyone got any ideas?
Q. I have dark hair on my legs so I have to shave it but I also have very sensitive skin. Whenever I am shaving my upper legs it hurts like something wicked. I use a venus disposible razor with some sort of shaving gel. I have tried alternatives to ...
A. 3 June 2007: When you have tried using creams like nair have you been leaving it on long enough as i use it myself and find you have to spread it on very thickly and leave it there for about twenty mins for it to work properly and then it is very effective, ... (read in full...)
This is going to sound stupid but I have a fear of going away on holiday.
Q. This is going to sound stupid but I have a fear of going away on holiday. I have been on many holidays but its since I have hit around 16 I have become less bothered about going away. The thing is I am going with my girlfriend in a week and I am ...
A. 3 June 2007: I remember the first time i went away without parents and i too remember being abit scared, you will be fine and like most holidays when you get there and your enjoying yourself you won't want to come home but everyone feels like that, have a ... (read in full...)
He is still telling me that he loves me but yet acting distant. Has he gone from love to loveless?
Q. Hello everyone. I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 months. We met on the internet. We finally met. We clicked on every cylinder. This guy had become my everything. We talked about getting married one day, having our ...
A. 3 June 2007: From experience most calling does die down abit after a short time, i don't think you should be too concerned about it as you said he is telling you he loves you and he knows your feelings about the children and them meeting him, if he stops calling ... (read in full...)
After a bad day at work I said the wrong thing to her, she dumped me on the spot!
Q. Hi 7 months after a nasty divorce i met the girl of my dreams, she was a virgin when we met and there was a age gap of 10 years which did not matter to us. Three months down the line and after a very bad day at work as a policeman, we me...
A. 3 June 2007: Have you tried contacting her since this happened and what has her responce been if so?
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Brewers droop or something else?
Q. My Boyfriend and i were about to have sex the other night when he 'lost it' he blamed the one glass of wine we had an hour earlier with our meal, could the wine be a valid reason? Just because this happened a few weeks back also but we have been tog...
A. 1 June 2007: It could be brewers droop, stress or relationship issues to be honest as it has only happened once i would not worry too much as they all have the odd occasion where it does not want to perform, if it should happen again try talking to him and see ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband want to up and move sticks? I don't want to move.
Q. My husband told me he wants us to move to Los Angeles, but I want to stay where we are - as it's nice and we've been where we are now for 3 years. Also, I've started a new job locally, and have only been in it for 4 weeks now. I'd probably lose to...
A. 1 June 2007: i have to aggree with the previous poster in a relationship/marriage you have to be totally open and honest with each other and you need to know 100% the reason he wants to move and suggest that you are not prepared to move until you know why.
G... (read in full...)
Someone has posted a picture of my boyfriend in his boxer shorts to a dating website and are continuing to do so, it's stressing us both out.
Q. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together since we were 18. Today I heard that he'd posted a photograph of himself in his briefs/boxer shorts on a dating website from a friend in work. I've seen the profile on the site - but my boy...
A. 1 June 2007: Who would have access to these photo's that are being posted?
Some times waiting for everyone else to sort it is not easy so take it into your own hands, contact the dating site and get your partner to again go and see his boss and he needs to make... (read in full...)
I feel embarassed to show him to my friends as he is 'not as fit' as all my old boyfriends.
Q. I am lost with what to do with my (currently ex) boyfriend. I knew him for about a year back when we were both about 14, and liked each other but we were immature/naive and didnt do anything. He moved and i thought i had lost him forever. Suddenly, ...
A. 1 June 2007: Babe i am not trying to put you down, but i think at your age it is very difficult to understand the true meaning of love. The fact that you are embarrased to show him off to your friends suggests to me that you are not actually in love with him ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's very well endowed. Will it hurt to have sex?
Q. I'm wondering... I am a virgin and I have a partner which is really big in size, he's well above average. Will it hurt me more than if he was smaller ? I'm kinda scared....
A. 31 May 2007: have a couples of glasses of wine and get on with it it will be fine.xx... (read in full...)
I lost his number and asked him for it again but he said no.
Q. i don't no what to do? help ok i really like a guy at work and i heard he likes me so i gave him my number and he text me so i could have his number i was so happy. He's 22 and im turnin 17 next month and don't worry he knows. but i deleted his nu...
A. 31 May 2007: move on girl he's so not worth the time and effort. xx... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?
Q. Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...
A. 31 May 2007: don't worry average size and any man that tells you any different is lying, stop fretting and have fun just play safe. xx... (read in full...)
Do guys like to kiss girls who give blow jobs?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know what everyone thinks of kissing girls that give bj to boys? do men all think that kissing them is like kissing the private part of the person they gave bj to or is it not? also do their mouth taste awful then...
A. 31 May 2007: whats the problem, it came from your body in the first place there is nothing wrong with it, and any man that does not want to kiss after should not expect a blow job in the first place.... (read in full...)
He talks about this one girl he used to date...a lot. Now she's moving to our town! Should I be concerned?
Q. I have been seeing this man for almost 9 months but we have known eachother for ten years as we used to be neighbors when we were both married, we have 6 kids between us. we get along great we laugh and have a great time together I love him very ...
A. 31 May 2007: You need to be able to trust him but at the same time i totally understand it must be very hurtful to hear about his past relationships, so tell him you say you have six children betweeen you so you need to be able to move on leaving the past behind ... (read in full...)
Our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently...is this normal?
Q. Hi guys, I've been seeing my girlfriend for over a year now, and she moved in with me last month (serious, I know!) - but our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently, only making love once a month at the most. It just seems that she d...
A. 31 May 2007: I would not say this is normal considering the short amount of time you have been living together, i would suggest opening up to your partner about this tell her you know sex is not everything but is a very big part and find out how she is feeling, ... (read in full...)
Was the cut on vagina from rough sex or an STI? What do you think?
Q. I have noticed a small cut on the lip of my lady bits and it sometimes stings slighly when i pee if a bit gets on there. I was very drunk and had quite rough sex the other night, do you think it could be an STI or just a cut from the roughness. My ...
A. 31 May 2007: No one is going to be able to tell you exactly what the problem is, more than likely it probably is just a little cut, but the fact you are concerned about std's i am guessing you did not use protection so as much as you don't want to go to your gp ... (read in full...)
I am so dry down there. I had chlamydia a while back..would an STD affect this?
Q. I get so dry! im 17 and have been sexually active for less than a year. In the beginning i got sooo wet, i mean with hardly any forplay. Now i dont get wet AT ALL. I got chlamidea a few months ago and i treated it... im currently not in a ...
A. 31 May 2007: personally i think the only problem you have is psychological, because of the std you have had before i think it without you realising it plays on your mind when it comes to penetration, i would suggest maybe going to see your gp to get some advice ... (read in full...)
He's taken so I told him so I wouldn't see him. anymore..because I had strong feelings for him. Now all he does is text me constantly and flirts with me! What's going on here?
Q. I fancy this guy who's taken. So that I didn't mess up anything for him and his girl, I told him that I had feelings stronger than friendship for him and therefore I couldn't see him for a while until these feelings had gone ( which I thought ...
A. 31 May 2007: Sounds like he want's to have his cake and eat it, if you like him tell him the only way you can see him again is if he ends things with his current girlfriend, if he is not prepared to do that then i would walk away and not look back. xx.... (read in full...)
He says he was mean to me, because he 'did' like me! I am confused..any advice?
Q. i am reali confused. a guy i always knew liked me just asked me out but i've neva been out with any1 and in the past he was mean to be because he likes me and was afraid. i reali confused please help!...
A. 31 May 2007: it's very common at your age to act like this when you like someone i have been there myself, i say go for it your only young once and this is the time for fun just stay safe. xx.... (read in full...)
He fingered me and I bled! Is this normal?
Q. hey everyone,i just have a little question...my boyfriend and i decided to get a little intimate a few days ago...things were going well..then he decided to finger me..when he did this, there was a little sign of blood on his hand..later that day,i ...
A. 31 May 2007: If this is the first time this has happened i would not be concerned it is quite normal for this to happen to some people first time, but if you are concerned then go and pay a visit to your gp and they will clear the matter up for you and make sure ... (read in full...)
He dumped me and I was getting over it and then...he texts me saying he misses me! What should I do?
Q. he dumped me last week monday. i was devastated. i was then convinced that it was over until he sms, then later called, to tell that he had made a mistake and that he misses me. i was on the process of getting over him and i was doing well until he ...
A. 31 May 2007: i have to aggree with DV1 on this one if he is really serious he will take it at your pace, you could do with dating again properly and take it slow dont just fall back into old routines. good luck. xx ... (read in full...)
Mom found a condom wrapper in my bedroom. She now says my bf and I are not allowed to be alone together, here! Is she being unreasonable? or is she right?
Q. Right this is a long one so i need to find a place to start. Well im 15. Have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for 5 months. i was moving my room around with my mum nd she found a condom wrapper. She at first was pretty ok about it, but then she ...
A. 30 May 2007: I remember how you are feeling, been there myself (not that long ago) and at your age i know you don't want people preaching to you so the only thing i can suggest to you is that you speak to your mother and try to come to some sort of aggreement ... (read in full...)
I think I had an orgasm! My hands and teeth were tingling!! Am I right?
Q. i think i had an orgasm on saturday night but am not 100% sure. If it was then wow! nd if not then an orgasm must be even more wow! we were having sex for a good 45 mins to an hour. Alot of it is a blur to me. After i was really out of breath. ...
A. 30 May 2007: oh yes baby, sounds like you have just had your first orgasm, congratulations and i hope you enjoy many more. xx... (read in full...)
I want a third child, but my man doesn't. Am I being selfish or should I stand my ground?
Q. Basically iv been with my man for 6 six years and we have two beautiful children aged 3 and 1. Iv recently given up everything [work, college etc] to take care of my family and home, which i love. I feel its time to have another child, iv always ...
A. 12 January 2007: I think it is time to decide what is more important to you, you have two lovely children and a husband some people don't even have that. If you keep pushing you may lose the man you love and is it really worth it, if just trying to decide is putting ... (read in full...)
I my ex asked about his health and he got short with me! What's going on?
Q. My ex boyfriend used to have siezures in his sleep, very frightening if you're lying next to him and he stops breathing and he wont wake up however much you shake him. We broke up but were still on great terms for about 6 weeks. For 5 of those weeks ...
A. 19 November 2006: it might just be that because he is on medication now and it is under control he feels he can leave it in the past and just get on with his life i understand that must be hard for you but you obviously get on well at the moment so i would say keep ... (read in full...)
10 years and now she says its over :(
Q. my long term partner and i have been together for 10 years and we have two children together but now she say's that she does'nt love me any more and wants me to move out after christmas so as not to upset the children.the problem is that i still ...
A. 19 November 2006: i have just been through this with my husband been together twelve years have two children and he turned round out of the blue a couple of months ago and said he did not love me anymore i can only tell you what i done, try asking if you have not ... (read in full...)
i cant orgasm
Q. I am 22 years old, and oddly have two kids... I come on this site, because I have never had an orgasm with masterbating.. I guess I dont know how to masterbate. And i would really like to know im im doing something wrong. People tell me that I c...
A. 19 November 2006: every one is different when it comes to orgasms i am twenty nine have been in a relationship with the same person for twelve years and had a fantastic sexual relationship but i only had my first one after ten years it takes alot of playing and ... (read in full...)
He treated me like dirt but he treats her like royalty - why?
Q. I live in a very samll town, so when my ex split up with me for another girl last year, everybody knew about it. I loved him so, so, so much and I could not accept what was happening so I wouldnt leave him alone. I begged him, cried to him, cried to ...
A. 19 November 2006: unfortuanetly babe some relationships are like that but they are not all like that, we all do silly things when we have been hurt but you really should not be embarrased by that we all have very different ways of dealing with rejection what you need ... (read in full...)
Foreplay mishap
Q. hey im 16 and my g.f is 15 nearly 16 and when we are togther we do alot of forplay but the other night she was giving me a blow job and i came every where and was realy messy it went all over my top and jeans but she made me cum rele early in the ...
A. 19 November 2006: you could always try asking your girlfriend where she would like you to cum some girls like the choice and you never know you might be pleasantly surprised by her answer.
have fun... (read in full...)
After my abusive relationship ended, I can't get back to my normal happy self. Please help!
Q. I spent twenty plus years as a battered wife. Broken nose, teeth, the lot. i finally got away over 10 years ago and i still have the traumas in my head. Is there any way i can get myself better? I suffer from depression on a daily basis and i don't ...
A. 14 November 2006: i am sorry to hear what you have been through but i think the ONLY way forward for you is to get professional help you should go and talk to your doctor and see if they can get you referred you really need to deal with what you have been through and ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged, but the attention from my ex is nice! I may secretly meet with him as mates.
Q. my ex tells me he loves me, fell for me a long time ago and wants to be with me, the problem is im engaged and love my fiance but its nice getting all this attention from my ex. we ended on good terms and had great relationship. ive considered ...
A. 14 November 2006: sounds like your ex has told you that because he can see you have moved on and are now happy with someone else and he does not like that one little bit, i would say its his tough luck and stick with your fiance and have no more contact with your ex ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between them - one is romantic and one is everything else I want!
Q. I'm torn between two men! The guy I was seeing(Gary) is sweet, romantic, thoughtful, loving and treats me with respect. But he's not good in bed and I find I'm frequently bored with his company. Then I met this other guy (Ed) who's adventurous, ...
A. 14 November 2006: unfortunately babe we cant have it all you really need to think about this one i know flowers and holding hands are lovely but its not everything, and too many people think too much about sex you need to concentrate on the more important things in ... (read in full...)
My BF just suddenly said he doesn't love me!
Q. My ex boyfriend and i had the most perfect relationship that anyone could ever ask for. We got along great we did everything together and we got serious. He was the one to come to me and tell me that he loved me. I knew he did and i know he still ...
A. 13 November 2006: going through it at the moment with my husband exactly the same situation been together twelve years relationship has always been perfect never even argued then all of the sudden he turns round out of the blue and says i dont love you anymore and we ... (read in full...)
To look cool, I told my bf lies about my family. Now he wants to meet them!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 14months and it has been difficult due to his previous relationship but he has finally made a commitment to me. However I have told him major lies about where my parents are from and where I grew up which has ...
A. 12 November 2006: i've got to second that one we all make mistakes but i have to aggree just tell him the truth he might be a little pi#**d at first but i'm sure he will get over it.
thinking of you... (read in full...)
Broke up 10 months ago but I like him again! How do I let him know this?
Q. 10 months ago my boyfriend of a year and i split up. we are friends again now, but i've started really liking him again. how can i tell/show him i like him?...
A. 12 November 2006: hi there
i think the only thing you can do is bite the bullett and just tell him hopefully he will still feel the same but at the same time if he does not you have to be prepared to lose him as a friend its a tough one but i hope every thing wo... (read in full...)
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