He reads his e-mails! What does this mean?
Q. I split up with my ex, he dumped me, very ugly terms ( he is a mummy's boy who used to badmouth his mum to me, led me on for years, and I bursted it all out to his mum, to find out from her he was badmouthing me to HER as well!) anyway, long ugly ...
A. 4 June 2009: I think the real question is why are you still cyber stalking him?
Why are you not out getting a life instead of emailing him and then checking up to see what he's up to?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I need help to get this man out of my life!
Q. hi all, i posted a question on the 13th sex while i sleep. it is a long story and there is much more to it than that, but i tried again to end the relationship i was focused and 100% sure i was doing the right thing, but he asked me for sex one last ...
A. 26 May 2009: He knows how to manipulate you clearly.
So get some friends round and then tell him while they are in the room. He will know he cannot get away with anything with witnesses.
You can help him pack his stuff with your friends there the WHOLE ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of people asking me if I'm pregnant!
Q. Ever since I was in middle school, people have constantly asked me if I was pregnant. It gets on my nerves. In church when I was middle school age, this woman came up to me, put her hand on my stomach, looked at me and said, "Are we having a little ...
A. 25 May 2009: Ok I started thinking about this this morning and there are millions of good one liners you could use...
My favourite so far is:
Are you pregnant?
No it's a massive in operable tumour.
Then just watch their face. Mwahahaha.
You... (read in full...)
Wanted to marry me everyday, now wants to take it one day at a time, what gives?
Q. I have a problem I have been seeing this guy for 3 months, he is 10 years younger than me, from the first week he was telling me he loved me and that he knew that i was the one he wanted to be with and marry we get along great together, he lives 2 ...
A. 24 May 2009: Oh dear, he's one of those types of guys. I've been out with them and they freaked me out.
He's a bit immature and he has no idea what love is. So when he feels that first rush of a relationship, and can't stop thinking about you and you are all ... (read in full...)
Can't get my boyfriend to stop watching porn, what can I do to change this?
Q. Oh boy, where do I start. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, he's everything I've ever wanted in a person; faithful as hell-we basically see each other everyday or every other day and he does so much to prove how much he care for me. ...
A. 24 May 2009: Urgh this is the most commonly asked question on this site. You may not get many answers as everyone has answered this a million times already so put porn into the search bar at the top of the site and read their answers there. Also check out the ... (read in full...)
I'm over the clubbing scene but my friends are so into it!
Q. my friends have now gone into this phase where they're in love with clubbing and go every friday and sat of the weekend. since they go so often they normally get free entry and bouncers dont even bother to check their id anymore. i used to go ...
A. 24 May 2009: If you are ready to settle down with a cup of cocoa and be in bed by 9pm then do it.
Either that of find other friends who like going to the cinema etc.
My sister in law is like this. She is the same age as me but refuses to come out and do ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of people asking me if I'm pregnant!
Q. Ever since I was in middle school, people have constantly asked me if I was pregnant. It gets on my nerves. In church when I was middle school age, this woman came up to me, put her hand on my stomach, looked at me and said, "Are we having a little ...
A. 24 May 2009: Urgh, I would hate it if a stranger came and touched me. How can they think that's ok?
I'd have put my hands on her boobs and then said "No. Are you a lesbian? I love women who like to touch me." That would have taught her haha!
I think you b... (read in full...)
I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?
Q. Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would ...
A. 24 May 2009: Vitamins and minerals.
Eat oranges to get vitamin C as that is really important for immune systems.
If you smoke or drink or eat lots of fatty junk food then that can make you worse.
Basically, if you act in a healthy way you will sta... (read in full...)
Twenty-eight, family still dictates, no friends, no boyfriend, miserable as heck, please help?
Q. why is being middle child a nightmare.i always treated like i am stupid.i am 28 years old and my father is still telling me what to do.telling me where i can go and what i am allowed to spend my money on.telling me what i am able for or not.i have ...
A. 24 May 2009: Just leave!
He doesn't have access to your bank account, he doesn't lock you up at night.
Just get online, find a job in a new town and just go. Move out.
Or you could just stand up to him and tell him you'll do what you want because you are... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me?
Q. I am confused about why I cannot get an answer from the girl I like about whether or nor she would go out on a "proper date" with me. We have met many times, she has been to my place and vice versa (she cooked for me) and she has said things that...
A. 22 May 2009: Woo!... (read in full...)
Does feeling a "real" penis make the difference???
Q. My partner's stopped wearing a condom because we want to start a family. The third time we had intercourse this way I experienced my 1st ever orgasm - it was unmistakable and I really had to cry out with the pleasure. I was just wondering whethe...
A. 22 May 2009: I think it's just as likely that you are more relaxed and turned on by the fact that this is so much more intimate.
You are no longer just doing it for lust, you are doing it because you love each other and you plan to spend the rest of your liv... (read in full...)
Had sex with my sister, she says if I tell she will cry rape, what should I do?
Q. When my sister and I hit puberty we started masturbating together because we were curious how it would feel. It turned out to feel great; but, around two years ago she started to do oral sex on me. On my seventeenth birthday weekend when my parents ...
A. 22 May 2009: You never do it again and you never speak of it again.
You know this is wrong, as does she.
Stop this now and spend as little time together as you can till you can rid yourself of these urges.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My husband finds the idea of retirement dull but I would like to spend more time with him
Q. I am 51 and my husband is 54, and he told me that his firm said to him that his retirement is set to come in six weeks time. He told me that they didn't really want to do it, and when he asked why they wanted him to retire, they said it was nothing ...
A. 22 May 2009: Wow. The way he has been treated is actually illegal over here in the UK. It's not right to say "You're too old we want someone with less experience." It doesn't even make sense.
I think you need to support him in contesting being thrown on the s... (read in full...)
Is she sending a message?
Q. Here's the thing. I've been spending a lot of time with a girl, and we've become very close. We've been friends for years, but we've become very close over the past six months or so. She knows I am attracted to her, but she has said in the past ...
A. 22 May 2009: I think you have to go with it and then put your arm round her and make a move.
If she turns you down then you'll know it's only friends.
She must know that this sends out the wrong signals.
If she does only want you to be friends then you n... (read in full...)
My ex is trying to sabotage new relationships for me.
Q. Hoping for some help here and thank you to people who respond. My ex and I broke up some time ago. There are guys interested now but it seems if my ex is around, he rolls his eyes at my comments or is sarcastic..in front of the guys who ARE ...
A. 22 May 2009: So he just follows you around all day and night and then jumps out from behind a bush and makes a nasty comment about you?
Why is he still around you?
Go out and get away from him and then you won't have this problem.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do people use the sympathy vote to get ahead and get attention so people feel sorry for them?
Q. what type of people get the sympathy vote and do they use it to get places as leg up.and people feel sorry for them for (eg a person said they father dies of tumor in shopping line while talking to some one who is front them and sudden let them in ...
A. 22 May 2009: If someone told me that then I certainly wouldn't let them ahead of me.
We all have problems. We all have people who have died.
Anyone who uses it to get ahead in life should be given pity as they are obviously too pathetic to get on and get b... (read in full...)
I sabotaged her dreams of modelling 8 years ago....am I to blame for the way her life has turned out?
Q. Morning all. I did an awful thing a few years back and now im not sure if im to blame for her future.. About 8 years ago when i was in high school i had this friend Vikki-when i say friend she used to hang around with me because i was the...
A. 22 May 2009: Looks like you may have had a hand yes.
But look, the model agency didn't write back and say "you are not allowed to have a back up career and must take no more than minimum wage for the rest of your life."
Plus she could easily have sent... (read in full...)
Karma took its revenge on me so will it take its revenge on my cheating ex?
Q. i made a bad mistake in my previous relationship and im not afraid to admit it, than karma came back to me and i deserved it.she cheated on me and treated me like dirt bad, than she dumped me, now i want to know will karma go back to her for what ...
A. 22 May 2009: She might do she might not. We can't judge, that's the whole point of kharma.
You leave it up to the Universe so you don't waste any time on things like hate and bitterness.
I know that you were hurting but did that give you the right to tre... (read in full...)
Whenever I try to talk about him coming to the doctors with me for a pregnacy test he just changes the subject to sex! What gives?
Q. My boyfriend is acting really odd. It all started when I told him I missed two periods and told him about it. For then on all he talks about is sex and not just normal things he talks about how he pees on himself and licks his own cum. Hes nev...
A. 21 May 2009: Well it's clear that he's really only interested in you for one thing.
Go to the doctors alone. You don't need him to hold your hand.
Most family planning clinics don't need appointments so you can go tomorrow and drop in.
There is a good... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is practically being held hostage in his own home! help.
Q. Hey everyone! Well i have posted questions on here before and youve always been really great help. This isnt really a huge problem, not compared to others and i guess this is kind of silly. Well im sitting my A levels and so ive now off...
A. 21 May 2009: These are pretty important exams and I don't care if you having sex... he needs to stay in and study.
Has it occurs to you that he might want to do as well as he can so he can have the best career he can to provide for you???
I know it SUCKS wh... (read in full...)
Does this sound like I'm getting involved in a whole load of drama?
Q. This guy ive met 4 times, found out his has a kid... i was ok with this as its still early days, we arranged a lunch date tomorrow then he texted me saying sorry he could not make it as he wasnt going into work, he lives far from work and i only ...
A. 21 May 2009: He has a kid, that means he has to stay in touch with and have drama with the mother of the kid.
Personally I wouldn't want to deal with that and you know this is going to keep happening as his child will and should always come first.
If you ... (read in full...)
Spying fiance
Q. I have been spying on my live in boyfriend for two years. I use the computer software but I have recently purchsed a gps for the car. He has been talking marriage I am in love with him but after spying I have caught him talking to his client in an ...
A. 21 May 2009: If you have been spying on him for 2 years then it means you haven't trusted him for 2 years.
It is doubtful that you will ever trust him.
I very much doubt that this is his fault though.
If you are prepared to hack into his emails and trac... (read in full...)
He reads his e-mails! What does this mean?
Q. I split up with my ex, he dumped me, very ugly terms ( he is a mummy's boy who used to badmouth his mum to me, led me on for years, and I bursted it all out to his mum, to find out from her he was badmouthing me to HER as well!) anyway, long ugly ...
A. 21 May 2009: Well he obviously has found a use for email other than speaking to you.
If he wanted to get in touch he would have done.
He read what you had to say, realised it wasn't really for him and ignored it.
Stop hanging around his inbox like a ... (read in full...)
Help! I really want to go but I don't know how to tell my mum, and what their reaction will be...
Q. Ok.. well I really need help, I'm gay, my parents know and all they're not happy but they cope with it... Anyway I met some boy online and he asked me on a date, I really want to go but I don't know how to tell my mum, and what their reaction will ...
A. 21 May 2009: It's really not safe to go and meet someone off the internet on your own.
You need to take someone with you, tell someone else where you are going and then meet them in a public place and stay in public places at all times.
I think you need t... (read in full...)
She says she'll wait 2 years but she cheated when we were apart over a weekend!
Q. my and this girl have been together for about 9 months. i love this girl but i've got into some trouble now im getting sent away till im 18. i'll be leaving 2 hours away from her an im 15 alomst 16. in 2 years i can come back to be with her. she ...
A. 21 May 2009: I'm sorry hun but I can't tell you what you want to hear.
The fact she couldn't stay loyal for 48 hours while you were away makes her look really bad.
The chances of ANY 15 year old girl staying loyal for 2 years are pretty much zero. The c... (read in full...)
When I get drunk I turn into a different person and I'm so cruel to her
Q. I'm so scared of losing my girlfriend, but i can't stop hurting her! It's like i've got the bad guy on one shoulder, and the good guy on the other! We've been for almost 2 years now and both at college, and going to the same uni in october....
A. 21 May 2009: The first think you need to do is grow some balls and stop drinking. You will never drink again.
You tell your friends this and you stick to it.
No girl should ever EVER have to put up with what you did to that girl.
You say you love her ... (read in full...)
Is he a controlling boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we've been together before but split up for about half a year before getting back together. Lately, I've noticed a lot of things in him that i see in my parents relationship. My mum is very ...
A. 21 May 2009: Oh My God. He's TELLING you what you are NOT ALLOWED to do and you are asking if he's controlling? For a smart girl you are being really stupid.
He has the most control of any 16 year old girl I have ever seen! Parents DREAM of that kind of contr... (read in full...)
Hard break-up, should I keep any hope of getting him back?
Q. I am in the deepest pain I have ever been in my life, deeper even than when I lost a very close relative. My boyfriend of 8 amazing months broke up with me on Monday because of something I said. For a bit over 3 months, he was gone on his study ab...
A. 21 May 2009: Same answer still applies.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 21 May 2009: Well the school will have a policy on keeping in touch with former pupils.
They wouldn't be very happy if a teacher started shagging one of their students the day after they left so they will have a rule on how much contact is appropri... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend want us to get back together or is he just lonely?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple months ago because of growing tensions. We had been together over a year and talked marriage. A month into our breakup, he started traveling for work. He'll be traveling for a few months. At that same time ...
A. 21 May 2009: He sounds like he is just lonely and wants to stay friends.
If you are not ready to be friends then you have to tell him and cut contact for a while.
If he does want more then he'll say so. If he doesn't say so then he's just using you for so... (read in full...)
How can I forgive myself for something that I have done?
Q. Hi i just have a short post. Can anyone help learn how to forgive myself for a wrong thing i have done, im living a nitemare, i need some help xxxxx...
A. 21 May 2009: Either make it up to the person you hurt, hand yourself into the police or if you can't do either of the above the figure out an aproriate punishment for yourself and do that.
Raise £3000 for charity by shaking a tin at the Supermarket on Saturday... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work if you are not sexually attracted to your partner?
Q. Can a relationship work if your not sexually attracted to your partner?...
A. 21 May 2009: Nope, you are just really good friends.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex-gf, but she says she's in love with another guy, should I believe her?
Q. Last Week I had sex with my now ex-gf. it's been a month since she broke up, because she told me she didnt love me, but she had feelings for another guy. She gets mad when I tell her she doesn't love this dude even though she slept with me and she's ...
A. 21 May 2009: Well if she broke up with you then why are you still talking to her?
You need to cut contact for a while and stop being there as her little self esteem boost and object for pity sex.
She probably had sex with you because she still finds you ... (read in full...)
Should I still be expecting him to make a bit of an effort after we have been together so long?
Q. Recently I feel as though my boyfriend doesn't care enough about our relationship, and I'm not sure what I can do. When we first started going out, my boyfriend effectively did all the chasing, he made such an effort and did everything he co...
A. 21 May 2009: What effort have you been making recently?
This is only one weekend so you can't go reading too much into it.
When you were on the phone did you flirt with him and tell him you wanted to see him and missed him? Did you offer to pay for the meal... (read in full...)
Hard break-up, should I keep any hope of getting him back?
Q. I am in the deepest pain I have ever been in my life, deeper even than when I lost a very close relative. My boyfriend of 8 amazing months broke up with me on Monday because of something I said. For a bit over 3 months, he was gone on his study ab...
A. 21 May 2009: Wow, of all the things NOT to say to your boyfriend "Give me money or I'm off to shag my ex for cash" has to be in the top 3. The fact you rubbed it in by saying you were still in touch with the ex behind his back was not great either.
I think he... (read in full...)
Easily quickly forgotten...
Q. Hi: It will soon be 2 months that my ex and I have ended our 3 year relationship. It's been rough, I see now that he was selfish and a coward for breaking up over the phone over, I opened up my heart after my divorce, and I thought he was so nice. ...
A. 21 May 2009: You say he broke up with you because you "disrespected him" that's not enough detail.
I think if it was something minor then you might have had a chance once he got over his deaths and started realising what a dick he was being by letting you go. ... (read in full...)
I left my ex to be with my new man and now he thinks I will do the same to him
Q. The man im with now, i met him while i was in a 4 year relationship, i broke up with my ex to be with this new man....but now hes worried im going to do the same to him....im so confused as i cant change the past what can i do? Do you think it ruin ...
A. 21 May 2009: Ah the old addage of Once a Cheater Always a Cheater...
I know you didn't cheat but you met him and got close to him and had feelings for him and allowed him to have feelings for you.
I can see why he would be worried.
All you can do is poi... (read in full...)
Emergency contraception! Please Help!!!!
Q. emergency!!!!!!!!!!!! please help this is really urgent. im 15 and i had sex for the second time with my boyfriend about 2 hours ago. However he pulled out of me and the condom wasnt on him we found it just at the opening of me and the tip wa...
A. 21 May 2009: Put the name of your town and "family planning" into Google.
The clinic should come up on the NHS website.
They have drop in sessions so you don't need an appointment. Just go along and talk to them and they will give you the morning after pi... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 21 May 2009: She will probably mention it to someone to cover her back.
She won't get in trouble for something you do so that is fine.
She would only get in trouble if she broke the school policy on keeping in touch with former pupils.
If you are neve... (read in full...)
I want to acually date him but how can I get closer to him if I never see him?
Q. I knew this guy when I was fourteen and hadn't seen him for 5 years then we meet up and hit it off. We text all the time every day or every other day but every time we make plans he always breaks them and it makes me so mad but then he'll text me ...
A. 21 May 2009: Well you could tell him that a guy asked you out. Tell him you really want a boyfriend and since HE is clearly not interested that you are thinking of saying yes.
If he says he is interested then point out that he keeps standing you up.
Tell hi... (read in full...)
Finding it hard to stand up for myself without making the argument worse!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been friends for four years and dating for 1, and this is really starting to bug me. We'll get into these stupid ridiculous fights and he'll accuse me of really dumb things (ei. my friend that doesn't like him: he thinks that ...
A. 21 May 2009: You just stay calm and keep saying that he's wrong.
If he blows up and screams at you like a psycho when you are calmly telling him that you have not done what he's accusing you of then yes you should break up with him.
It sounds like he u... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me to go back home with him....could this mean he is still with the mother of his children?
Q. Ive met this guy hes 29 im 22, we have been on 4 dates and email and text everyday, they were great dates and were so attracted to each other lots of kissing...he lives about a hour away from me ive now asked twice to go back home with him, hes said ...
A. 21 May 2009: Dashing into sex is probably how he ended up with 2 kids in the first place.
What you have on your hands is a gentleman who wants this to go right.
Just because you haven't sniffed round all the corners of his home for other women doesn't me... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me?
Q. I am confused about why I cannot get an answer from the girl I like about whether or nor she would go out on a "proper date" with me. We have met many times, she has been to my place and vice versa (she cooked for me) and she has said things that...
A. 20 May 2009: Well if you say "I would like to take you out on a date. Would you like that? Or do you want to just stay as friends?"
If she answers anything other then yes then just say "I'll take that as a no and leave you alone for a while till I am ready to... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 24 October 2008: You tell her in anyway you want. She will then tell the head and if you are still going to see her in school next year then they will bring your parents in to discuss how to handle it and if you need to move classes so you don't see her.
If yo... (read in full...)
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