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writes:I want to keep this question as general as possible, but it does apply to my personal situation.What would explain why two people are not in a relationship together when they both like each other (and know it), have incredible chemistry, and have tons in common? Would this not be the perfect storm for a relationship to develop?In my case, I know the answer is she's in another relationship. But she has told me that our relationship would be so much better than the one she is in. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I didn't add that we had a fling while she and her boyfriend were on a break, but she's since gone back to him after much pleading on his part. The thing is we don't act any differently now as opposed to when we were 'seeing each other' except for physical contact. She is loyal enough not to fool around with me while being in this other relationship but we still see each other and flirt and all that jazz (I was just at her place last night). And we both want to have physical contact with each other, but neither of us wants to 'complicate' things.
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reader, 1littleduck  +, writes (3 December 2008):
It sounds to me that she is not happy with her relationship and is just waiting for you to ask he out...
You should go for it as this could be one of those matches made in heaven.
Grab happiness whilst you can, it does not come along very oftern and you could well regret not taking the chance.
Good luck...but I dont think you need it!
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