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writes:ok ummm first post, first question.ive got feelings for 1 of my best friends gf and she does for me, to the point if we met each other b4 my mate we'd probs be together. what makes matters worse is that i work with my best mate.we txt alot. but both said like could never do anything and he's my best friend and working with him it would just cause a major major ball ache at work. but i just cant help but think" arghhhhhhhhhh" i dont think i could do anything even if they split unless he kinda guessed n gave me "the green flag" which i doubt.i dont know if i can have any advice but needed to vent.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (10 January 2011):
 He may give you the green light but it would probably be quite a while down the road after a break up and not if he felt that you had any part to play in it. It's always tough when a friend is involved and you should remember that shances are he will around alot longer than she will be so I would focus more on keeping that friendship over the girl.
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