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30-35,
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writes:Hi, im 21 years old, male!! My ex girlfrnd (the only one) is 25 !!! We had a very close relationship for 3 years or so, before our break up!! She is the only girlfriend i hv ever had, i really loved her a lot, i still love her... After our break up i was really broken and i was hurt!! Shes been married for last two years!!For last 1 or 2 years ive been gethering myself preety well..We hvnt talked or seen each other since our break up... She is very close to our family, shes visiting our home now a days (for a lil time) coz one of my family member is very sick!! I see her whenever she comes and feel very bad when she leaves!! We havnt talkd though!! I really really miss her now (just like after our break up)!! Shud i call her?? Will it make me feel better??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011): Accept the fact that you can't be with her anymore. I'm sorry, but you can't. You will probably always love her; I think most first loves are that way. If you called her, it would have to be as a friend. Can you be friends with her?
Calling her sounds dangerous and messy. I think it will only make you feel worse. Maybe by calling her, you'll see how impossible your fantasies are and move on faster.
Those things you love about her, you can find in other women, who can make you just as happy as she did. I promise. Good luck.
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