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writes:I had an internal scan on Monday at 6 weeks, and my baby was fine and so was the heartbeat.I went to the abortion clinic this morning as I needed to go to cancel my appointment but let them do a stomach scan and they said they thought I had a brighten Ovum (I think I spelt it wrong) so was told to go see if it was or if it was because they couldn't see much on the small scan.I then went to the EPU for another scan and baby had grown but heartbeat was slow, so I have another appointment in a week for another scan. I am so scared and worried for my little bean because I do want it more than anything as after seeing it on Monday made me realise I do want my baby.My Mum said she didn't think something was right as I have been having back pains recently. And now she says I should abort because there is a big chance my baby won't be ok if I get to full term.Please can somebody tell me the chances that my baby will get through the next couple of months and if possibly the slow heartbeat at this point has effected it in any way.I feel so upset right now and I just really want everything to be ok, even though I do realise that this is unlikely. It's hard to believe from Monday with such a fast heartbeat to a slow one but I am trying to be optimistic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
Did they explain anything to you love? Ive found a link have a read and if you want a chat message me,You should have a good chat to the doctor thats the best advise I can give you sweethearthttp://health.howstuffworks.com/how-hereditary-illnesses-work2.htm
WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (8 February 2008):
 My darling, you can only hope and pray for your baby's health! The nurses and doctors you see should be able to tell you what's going on. At this early stage in a pregnancy, anything can happen: your baby could either get better or die. Try not to get stressed out, because it'll do you no good! Look after yourself. On this occasion, I would not listen to your mum, because she's just trying to stop you from getting hurt and can you immagine having an abortion only to wander "what if it lived"?
You just need to put yourselves in the hands of God and pray, pray, pray. If the Lord takes your baby away, it'll mean you're just not ready to be a mum, but you needed a wake-up call about sex and abortion! Learn from the hurt.
But for now, get some good medical advise and take care.
God bless you and your baby! Good luck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 I think you need to seek professional advice. Ask your doctor on your next appointment.
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