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Will he change his mind or does he just use me for fun?

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Question - (19 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2012)
A female Ukraine age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I felt in love with a boy, who's not actually ready for a relationships. He prefers a position of "friends with benefits" because of that, that he don't want any responsibility and limits toward me. I see that he feels somth but because of those principles he doesn't dare for more.He insists that he wants to be alone, doesn't want the obligations of a relationship.

I dont know how to understand if he can change his decision or he just uses me for fun. help please!

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A female reader, PsychologyPsycho United States +, writes (20 August 2012):

PsychologyPsycho agony auntI'm afraid you have fallen for someone but the feeling will not be returned,i dont think you'll be able to have benefits with this friend without any emotional attachment,its wrong to try to change somebodys mind so I'd advise looking for someone who is interested in a relationship

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2012):

He is using you for fun and he is being perfectly honest about it. Either choose to listen or fool yourself.

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