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Why is this casual sex not pleasurable for me?

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Question - (4 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've started sleeping with my best friend were not dating its just casual sex, we've "tried" to have sex twice but its just not pleasurable for me....Its Pleasurable for him but I don't know this has never happened with any of my ex's before! Is it cause I'm not that comfortable with him yet?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2011):

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Been best friends for over 3 years it wont spoil our relationship! I'm attracted to him trust me :) But i agree with The Realist maybe i don't love him as much as i thought i did. :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011):

It's probably the fact he's your best friend? Obviously you're not going to feel physically attracted to your friend, unless you always felt that way.

You should just hope from doing this it hasn't spoilt your friendship.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (4 May 2011):

The Realist agony auntI think you don't have the right feelings for him that you need to get pleasure out of sex. Some people, girls mostly need there to be more emotion to sex rather then just the sex itself. This feeling may never be there with him.

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