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writes:Ok so my wife of 13 years and I go out to clubs and go dancing. We both love to dance and have a great time. One thing that drives me crazy is that she keeps telling me about other girls that are checking me out. I am there do dance with her. I dont go there to check out the other girls. So what is with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2010): It could be that she feels a bit insecure. Maybe she tells you about those other girls checking you out because she is looking for reassurance from you that you are not interested in them, and only want to be with her. Perhaps she is hoping you might say something like, "Well they can check me out if they want, but you're the only one here I want to dance with". I could be wrong, but that is the first thing that sprung into my mind when I read your question - insecurity. I know it must get irritating though, but I think she may just be looking for a reassuring reaction from you. Just my thoughts... x
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reader, Aussiemum  +, writes (19 May 2010):
Maybe she wants you to be aware that you are still very 'marketable'. Its a really great compliment to be checked out by the opposite sex. Maybe its just her way to try to make you feel good, by bringing it to your attention...because of the fact that you dont look. Try not to stress about it. As long as you both go home together, dont sweat the small stuff. Goodluck
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