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Why does my friend act the way she does when she has a boyfriend?

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Question - (1 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

Why does my friend do the things she does. is this right?

My friend loves attention. Whenever we go out she'll try so hard to get guys attention. She'll speak to them first and hang around them.

She has a boyfriend she claims she loves so much but when we went on holiday she slept with 2guys.

There's this other guy that likes her and she doesn't like him. She says horrible things about him all the time but answers his calls whenever he calls her. I told her not to answer but she says she loves the attention.

She is gorgeous and I like her but am losing respect for her.. I don't think I like her as much anymore. Cos am a complete opposite, am a nice girl and I think sex is better when you're in a relationship and both in love. There's this nice guy that likes me and my friend says I should sleep with him. Wtf? He knows am a good girl. I don't want to ruin it.

Thanks.x

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (2 January 2012):

tennisstar88 agony auntSimple, she's an attention slut and completely insecure.

If you don't agree with her morals and feel she's a negative influence on you, then end the friendship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012):

If you don't like her as much then distance yourself and cool the friendship.

When your morals are so totally different ofcourse you will clash..your a 'good girl', she's a 'good time girl', its just the way it is. She may think your boring.Just as you think shes an attention seeking girl.

Who knows why she acts this way, probably because she can and gets away with it. No doubt she will settle down one day

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2012):

She sounds insecure and her way of trying to make herself feel wanted and special is by getting guy's attention and sex. She's trying to fill some kind of emptiness inside but i doesn't work so she carries on hoping that eventually she'll feel better about herself.

Basically, she has deep seated issues that only therapy can cure. I feel sorry for her boyfriend and he has a right to know. What if she gives him and STD?

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