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Why does he not answer? Is he really my "boyfriend"?

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Question - (14 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Do you think that you can call a guy your boyfriend, if you only see him about once a week, he doesn't call you rarly, and same goes for txt messages pretty much? And when i do try to call him, he answers it maybe 1 out of every 10 calls i make to him or it just go's straight to messagebank which he has'nt even left a personal msg on there so i can leave him a voice msg anyway!It just sends the number you are calling from at the time. What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006):

No, this is not a boyfriend, hun---a casual acquaintance maybe? But definitely not a guy who wants to be in a dating situation. Anytime, you date someone and they are really, really into you they would be calling (to hear your voice),texting, e-mailing a lot, sometimes many times a day! A boyfriend treats you as 'top-notch, priority one" If this isn't happening, with this friend, then don't sweat it. Get out and go find some nice guy who makes you his queen and just wants to 'rock on' with you...ALL the time. Remember, You absolutely, always have got to be priority one -don't accept anything less.

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A female reader, CONFUSED N STUPID! +, writes (15 October 2006):

to me it seems like hes just not that bothered about u, so dont be bothered about him! even if he was a real boyfriend, which it doesnt sound like he is, he wouldnt be a very good one. When guys are interrestd in u, (at the beginning of your relationship) they act like they are no matter what! trust me BE SINGLE!! i wish i was!X GOOD LUCK

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A female reader, pica +, writes (14 October 2006):

Regardless of what you call him, it doesn't look like he's that interested and you obviously want more. I think if you want to keep seeing him you'd be best to play it down to others and not take it very seriously.

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