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writes:Hi - I cannot make sense of this situation and i do not know how to handle it.We had a relationship for several months. He live abroad and started to freak out because we became really involved. Too much really. So naturally we stopped to see each other. It was two months ago but we still exchange emails.Lately he said that he would like to be with me, I would like you to be here with me and blah blah. I said I will be in his town for business and if he invited me for a coffee we may catch up. I said coffee - instead of drinks or dinner- just keep it friendly. He said: of course, a coffee or much more than that if you want.So yesterday i told him that i will be there from wed to saturday and if the invite is still on i would be happy to meet, just i need to know when to organize myself. He asked when it is best for me, I said any day . He didn't reply back !What is going on here ?? I really need to organize other things. If he does not want / can why do not say so instead of make me wait and feel like an idiot ?Should I send another email ? Why is he not replying ? Thanks ! Reply to this Question
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reader, Love-Wisely  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 I'm not sure why he didn't reply yet, but by letting him pick from so many available days - you made yourself feel vulnerable. I think when it comes to setting dates, it's better to use the phone. If you guys haven't talked on the phone in 2-months, things could be a little awkward in person.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Just send another email saying you have to organize your schedule. You only sent the email yesterday, that's not exactly a hanging offense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): Don't make too big a deal out of it. He could be busy etc... don't hang around waiting.
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