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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello,My boyfriend has it in his mind that he pressured me into having sex with him, I don't think he did. I wanted to and we have done it many times since. But just tonight he confessed as though he feels that he did, I have tried to convince him otherwise and even after we did the first time and times since I have let him know that I wanted to and that I wouldn't have done it if I wasn't ready or uncomfortable. What should I do about this? We are both very much in love with one another, and engaged ( although we are young) ... I just don't understand why he feels this way, especially when I have told him he hasn't. And I know he's not saying that because he wasn't ready... I have also asked him if he was, he says he doesn't regret it and I know he loves it, what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's not nagging me about anything.... we have had sex, numerous times but he still feels as though he pressured meinto having sex with him, he didn't, I was ready to have sex....
But.. thanks... =/
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reader, GossipGirl +, writes (30 October 2007):
Just tell him you are not ready and If he is a good bf he should back off but then again he could be a real jerk and keep nagging you about it. Just talk to him about it!
GG
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