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Why do some guys feel guilty after the first time they masturbate?

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Question - (27 October 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *awlagirl writes:

Why is it that most guys that have sex their first time, feel guilty after they cum? Many have told me after they masturbate they feel kinda guilty.. why is this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

As a guy, I believe that you feel something happen that you've never felt before. This is what I thought my first time. After a while, you don't feel that way anymore. So this feeling is totally normal and is nothing to worry about. It usually happens after once you ejaculate and are resting. It's something you get used to.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

A number of reasons. Everytime I do I feel like I've abused myself. Disgusted that I'm so weak that I couldn't control myself. On top of all this I know I'm being disrespectful to the girl that I'm fantasizing about while doing it. And simply put I do think it's wrong and I should be having sex with a woman not my hand to relieve myself.

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A male reader, Tsu United States +, writes (27 October 2008):

Tsu agony auntlol I hope u havnt made many guys feel guilty...

Anyways, there is a simple reason that is unknown to most men in the world. When we once heard of those stories as a young child, about the price and princess living happily ever after, not only was it a wonderful story, but every guy subconsciously wants that.

And, believe it or not, all guys aren't born wanting to use girls lol. Whilst we have our virginity, we dream of that princess, pure and everything. One pure thing, is their virginity.

And so, to wrap this up, when ya lose your virginity, you lose your purity. And a princess certainly would never want a filthy hobo over a prince right?

lol and so, by losing our virginity, we basically kill that dream of being with that one perfect girl.

And with that dream gone, most of our morals are gone. Cuz well, a princess is highly looked upon, on a pedastal. With her gone, a woman is just like every other woman.

So yea, when we cum, it's all of the horniness leaving us, and when that leaves, we have not the evil thoughts of our body, but only our heart who's thought are no longer clouded by our body's thoughts.

And our hearts aren't evil, but pure. And so it's sad, hence where we get our regret/guilt from.

There ya go!

\~Tsu

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008):

means they did something they didnt want to do or do it to something that discusted them or thought was wrong but their minds not there they do it and its done it jits them "what did i do why did i do that"

kind of like if a guy and a girl have sex the girl says "put it in my ass" the guys going to do it cause of sex drive but later when hes done he mite think that was discusting or something.

sorry if that didn't help.

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A male reader, cyborgninja911 United States +, writes (27 October 2008):

cyborgninja911 agony auntThat is because they want to do it with a girl, not their hand. There's not intimacy between two people in masturbation, it feels wrong, well... feels good, then feels wrong.

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