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Why do I keep pushing people away???

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Question - (13 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone, I've had this problem before but it eventually went away, it's just dealing with it while it's here which is the problem. For some reason I am very agitated and have started to become aggressive to people I know, even my closest family, the only person who I don't treat meanly is my sister. When I say meanly I mean making no conversation, keeping distant, pushing them away if they come to hug or kiss me, and if they ask me whats wrong I shout at them to leave me alone. I don't know whats causing me to behave like this, I'm constantly stressy and I'm sick of feeling like this, no one has done anything wrong, so why am I suddenly like this again?

Any suggestions would be much apreciated. Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010):

Negative/pesimistic hormone releases are normal at your age. But you seem at bit more angry than most, go to your doctors and ask them how you should balance your hormones.

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A female reader, princessJaye14 United States +, writes (13 June 2010):

princessJaye14 agony auntMany times stress or feelings is caused by a lot of overwhelming work. If you are caught up with school or another event, it could cause you to feel trapped. Another big idea is the female menstrual cycle. It causes moodiness to the extremes. You mentioned that you had been like that before, and now I ask; Did you have your cycle around that time? I've had many of the same emotions, including constant irritation at people, exhaustion, and becoming snappy. It is due to pass; if you did not encounter what I mentioned, you can go to a family member for advice.

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A female reader, spook United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2010):

spook agony auntHey just read this and it sounds to me like a trip to the doctors is in order. You could be suffering with a kind of depression like bi-polar? If you feel your moods are affecting people you love you must seek medical advice. You could be put on medication or even just a form of counselling like CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) Do you smoke weed at all? If not I really suggest doctors. It will help you and your family :)Don't beat yourself up about in the meantime try looking up some breathing techniques and try to teach yourself that when someone is simply asking if your ok you CAN answer them calmly it will make you and them feel much better. ive it a go :0 good luck

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