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writes:Why do i feel so sad over this guy that im not even going out with? I feel like crying. He likes someone else..i dont know what to do..i have never felt like this about any guy before. im trying to move on but i cant. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): I'm going through the same thing. I'm crazy about this guy but he did something that totally disrespected me.(we're not together, just talking for the past 3 months) I want him to run to me and apologize and tell me he misses me and that I'm the only one for him. haha.
I refuse to chase him. If he comes after me then i know where I stand with him. If he let's me go and never calls me again, then I have to the fact that he's not the one for me. I want someone that wants me...really wants me. I don't want to have to convince him ..because if we ever get together, he'll never appreciate me and love me the way I want to be love.
I know it sucks. Esp when you have such strong feelings for someone. It feels like someone died, because you might not ever see or hear from them again.
But you have to know you will be fine. And there are a million other fish in the sea.
Also don't take it personally. Like a rejection and get down on yourself. if it's not a match it's not a match.
I'm hoping my guy will miss me and maybe your guy will realize that too and come back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): awww, that really sucks!
I am in the same situation myself..i dnt know if he likes anyone else.
this guy must be really stupid if he likes another girl. have you had a talk to him and told him how you felt?
you never know, he may like you back!! :) maybe he thinks you were not interested in him "in a fancying" way and he moved on..
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