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writes:a couple years ago, i dated this girl for a short time, and lost my virginity to her. it was the worst relationship anyone could imagine. lots of bad things happened--i found out she was cheating on me, she almost had a physical altercation with a relative, and a lot of other things. the relationship went extremely sour, and after i found out she had told a friend about my first time with her, i felt embarassed and stupid for ever being with her and left her. she spent months trying to contact me, and i ignored her-changed my number, blocked her from everything i could. fast forward to now: i've been with my girlfriend for almost a year, and i'm very, very happy; she's perfect for me! One night a couple weeks ago, i had a nightmare that my girlfriend and this ex got into a fight, and i couldn't go back to sleep that night. i couldnt understand why id think about an ex outta the blue that i hadn't seen or anything, so it really scared me that i had this dream.well the other night, i ran into her. and she still seemed kinda mad.out of all the people i dated before and after her, why can't i rid myself of this one? how can i?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 December 2010):
 She's a psycho ex! Those are the hardest to shake off. She's still present in your mind because of all the bs that she brought in that relationship. I have an ex similar to yours, and after the first year of breaking up I also had nightmares involving him. It would creep me out. But you have to remember they're just nightmares, you can't control what you dream. That person is now far into your past. Those nightmares will also go away within time.
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