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Why are stunning women shunned by plainer women?

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Question - (24 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi

I found the most stunning woman, whist chatting on the internet. I had recently come out of a marriage of 12 years, and was at a low because my wife had cheated on me for second time, and I was leaving behind children, though I still see them.

Anyway I decided to meet with my new friend, without a photo or anything so it was a bit blind. As it turns out she was stunning, way out of my league.

We made love! yep love.

We spent time telling each others their life stories.

Then it was over.

I have two questions. 1 why are stunningly attractive women shunned by other women. 2 Why don't women ever have a one night stand with less attractive guys, and give instead of taking.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007):

Women are a strange breed! They shun gorgeous women out of their own insecurity and jealousy... many, many women are insecure and the last thing they want is some goddess around them and especially their man! It's purely a jealously/insecurity thing. Women comfortable in their own skin won't be intimidated by beauty but unfortunately most women aren't secure enough to enjoy life without jealousy!

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A female reader, AbiMF United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

Can't answer the second one, but 1 isn't entirely true. If a woman is cocky and overconfident about how she looks with other women then it makes them feel insecure, so they decide to spend time with other people who they don't feel awkward around. On top of this when an attractive woman seems to be able to get any guy she wants, whereas the people she spends time with are sometimes struggling to be noticed, resentment can build up between them, breaking down their friendship. Attractive women aren't shunned because they are attractive, it's because the effects of that can make other women feel inferior,

Abi xxx

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