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female
age
41-50,
*eha
writes:I am in a pure relationship with a guy since last 4.5 yrs. We both luv each other but he has changed, he is so bussy that he hardly finds time for me.Sometimes he is quite rude but at times too good, he never tells lie from me. I asked several times calmly that if u feel you want to leave u can but plz dont linger the relationship. But he says you are always behind breaking the relationship, i need you truly. But than why he doesn't speak out why only when i ask he says, why he can't take just 20-30 mins in a day for me? Where his feelings are gone?We talk daily but in our talks also I am also unsatisfied bcoz he never shows that he luvs me but i know he do, At times he is quiet rude which is beyond my digestion. But words without actions have no meaning, I believe i now i have gone so crazy that i can even die for him but he is in his world (Bussyness), he only proposed me and now he had changed????How can i get him back or come out of this things, 4.5 yrs are not small duration, plz help me out......... Reply to this Question
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 Lots of men have trouble of expressing their feelings like us women do. Don't worry, he does love you very much. He tries to keep busy with his work....it makes him feel good to keep busy. It also hurts him to hear you think that he doesn't. It bothers him so much, that is why he seems rude to you.
I don't think you need to worry about him not having feelings for you.
Get a hobby to keep yourself busy like art and crafts, or something that you like doing.
Try talking about something much different when you two have talks. And try to stay away from that subject that you keep bringing up. It might help greatly in your relationship!
Good luck to both of you!
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