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writes:Athough i have a good time with the man i 'm dating this year sometimes when we talk about the future i find that we see it differently. For example he insists that he doesn't want to get married. Although i try to be polite, this is something that irretates me. I don't want to show him that this is something that worries me but it is really difficult and invokes a lot of stress. On the other hand i don't know if he really means it or it is something that he says without really mean it.How can i really understand this? Should i not get worried about this and leave the things continue without intervention? Or i should insist to clear the situation and what would be the consequences? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): i've been through this...and it got really tough cuz I can't not get married...and guys just hate talking about stuff like that. but I think if he's told you that he doesn't want to get married...you have to get your expectations right. yes, there IS a chance he might get married in the end, but it's a risk. Are you willing to go through the risk? In my case, we tried...but in the end it got too tough and he left me.
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