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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive been with my girlfriend for almost a year, we are both 23. Ive never had a girlfriend like her, she is perfect. We have even talked about moving in together so early on in our relationship. Sadly, her brother died in May. She has 2 other brothers, 18 and 27, one living at home and the other living in his own place. She asked her 18 year old brother if he wants to move out with us both, when we eventually do, without talking to me about it first. But i dont really want him to, hes a great lad but i just want to live with her alone and have that maturity and independence. Maybe she just wants to be close to him but she still can be because its not like we're going to move hundreds of miles away. What can i do in this delicate situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Thanks for the replies ladies, they have really helped a lot x
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 just be honest. be understanding towards her feelings, but be honest. fact is she should have talked to you about it first. if she is mature and cares about you the way i feel she must, she will listen to you and see where you are coming from. maybe it will be a very temporary thing where she and her brother will help each other through tough times and then you will get your alone time with your girl. good luck!
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