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writes: My girlfriend is a kinky kind of girl and i am afraid that I might not be kinky enough for her. what are some of the steps that I can take to be a little more kinky in the bed room? What are some sexual enhancing tools that I could use to surprise her in the bed room? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): I suggest scarfs/handkerchiefs rather than handcuffs. Shots from her/your belly button?Nipple piercing?I wouldn't worry, if you two communicate, she will let you know what she wants.
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reader, ellie6 +, writes (24 November 2006):
 You could try visiting a sex store together and getting her to pick out the sex toys she'd like to try
Or go on your own and surprise her with a nurses/police outfit for her to wear(and try the whole roleplay thing)/ handcuffs/ chocolate oil for you to lick off one another/ blindfold/ a whip
But if you or your bank balance can't cope with these presents then just try new locations when you have sex, for example:
tell her to get in the car then drive her to a secluded place and have sex in the back seat/ on the bonnet
have sex in the shower together
have sex outdoors, in the garden, etc- this will be more pleasurable because youll be aware of being seen by neighbours etc
Or try new positions like on the kitchen worksurface, her laying on a table, you sat on a chair and she sits on you, on the setee, against the wall, doggy style, theres thousands!!! lol
Good luck
You could try watching a porn movie together and copying what the porn stars do- always fun!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): Try an SS officer's uniform. Be sure to have a rhinoceros hide whip, waist belt with holster (and pistol), appropriate black leather boots, and that kinky hat officers got to wear. Maybe have a latex scar for your cheek.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2006): HANDCUFFS!!!! Always good.... ahh sounds like a girl after my own heart....Umm... could try massage oils? roleplay? outfits? toys? Durex do a range of weird lubes and vibrating rings..... hope this helps
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