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What is it about him that makes me this way?

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Question - (14 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *ikiki writes:

We live far from each other.We are not friends. I’m afraid to go in the same room that he is in, my whole body physically shakes (even if I just look at his pix) and I get this weird feeling inside, it’s very hard to describe it but it scares me. When he is near me, I find myself drifting away like a river. Once I hugged him and listened to his heart beat. I didn’t want too; I just did it out of the blue.

What wrong with me?

When I think about it logically I can’t find a reason what is it about him that makes me this way. His is nothing special and I get angry at myself and after that I just cry.I've been feeling like this for 4 years every time I see him it all happens all over gain. I tried so desperately to get rid of it but it won't go away.

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A female reader, rikiki United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2008):

rikiki is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you guys for repling.

I was always afraid to tell him about how he makes me feel but now he has a girlfriend. So I have to stay on sidelines and pretend that I'm o.k.-Rikiki

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

you love the guy

ur nt alone i feel that way about a guy too.. he treats me like crap even tho we r best friends.. but my heart still beats.. hes nothing special at all but to me he means the world :(

so its all normal! go chat to him huni =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

i to feel like this when i see my guy i call it love

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