A
male
age
30-35,
scipio
writes:Our relationship is about one and half years,though we are known to each other for last 8 years.Problem is,she had past two relationships before me.She still have contacts with them and talk almost regularly with one of them.Thats not a problem for me.I cant understand why she hide her present relationship,with both of them.Sometimes,its seems she thought and comparing me with them.Even during physical contact,she sometimes thought about her ex.(she told me).Whats in her mind??
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reader, scipio +, writes (20 January 2008):
scipio is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks Annalisa,for your ans.Thats true she is getting something what she couldnt get properly from me.She also know that what her ex is telling to her is just flirt.But she likes that flirting and i dont as i dont wanna be fake with my beloved one.Complicated girls mind.I hate that.
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (17 January 2008):
 Ask her how she truely feels about you. It might be that this other guy just knew how to please her more than you do, in which case you can offer to learn what she needs!
If she actually admitted to you that she thinks of him while you make love, she should be honest enough to tell you if she's still in love with him.
Thinking of other men can be natural, especially if they are still in touch, but if it comes between you, you need to talk.
Good luck!
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